"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
What are some good songs to bang to?
- Thread starter venser
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Supremo
Senior Don Juan
Just a Lil' Bit - 50 Cent
Candy Shop - 50 Cent
The Way I Are - Timbaland
I Wanna **** You - Akon
Back that Ass Up - Juvenile
pretty much anything you can freak to
Techno (the best stuff)
Can You Feel the Bass - Benny Benassi
I Love My Sex - Benny Benassi
Play It Hard - DJ Dean
Make U Move (Rocco vs. Bass-T Remix) - DJ E-Maxx
Sextacy - East Clubbers
Sexplosion - East Clubbers
With techno, the best is stuff with higher BPM, around 130 or so is PRIMEEEEE.
counting crows - color blind
bloodhound gang - the bad touch
Remy Zero - Fair
Ben Harper - Sexual healing
Howie Day - collide
supremo you listed alot of faster songs "stuff you can freak to", generally i always thought of using slower songs. Whats your experience with the faster songs? Does it change the sex? (does the pumping get more vigorous lol? etc..)
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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War Against Betaism
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When you're banging, even though it feels great, you don't want to rush it. Take it slow. I'd suggest a whole list of R&B songs would do, but R&B in general would do. Though...
Take It Slow - Ying Yang Twins.
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yin yang twins
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Supremo
Senior Don Juan
Oh hell yeah man.venser said:
It may not sound true, but if you try to keep up with the beat of the techno music... you'll be caught up in that and end up lasting a lot longer.
Kind of a cool trick.
But slow songs aren't bad either. Those are for keepin it romantic n all that ****.
Fast songs are for releasing your primal urges and gettin down!
Hella fun dude. Good luck with that.
Few more that are perfect -
Alizee Remix - Benny Benassi
Suck on my Lollipop - DJ Alligator Project
Pretty much anything by BB is great for having sex to.
But whatever floats your boat.
Like I said, in my opinion, faster = more fun = better.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Thinking about it put on some heavy metal cause most likey she will hate it and be rough in bed..lol.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.