"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What are some good songs to bang to?
- Thread starter venser
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Supremo
Senior Don Juan
Just a Lil' Bit - 50 Cent
Candy Shop - 50 Cent
The Way I Are - Timbaland
I Wanna **** You - Akon
Back that Ass Up - Juvenile
pretty much anything you can freak to
Techno (the best stuff)
Can You Feel the Bass - Benny Benassi
I Love My Sex - Benny Benassi
Play It Hard - DJ Dean
Make U Move (Rocco vs. Bass-T Remix) - DJ E-Maxx
Sextacy - East Clubbers
Sexplosion - East Clubbers
With techno, the best is stuff with higher BPM, around 130 or so is PRIMEEEEE.
counting crows - color blind
bloodhound gang - the bad touch
Remy Zero - Fair
Ben Harper - Sexual healing
Howie Day - collide
supremo you listed alot of faster songs "stuff you can freak to", generally i always thought of using slower songs. Whats your experience with the faster songs? Does it change the sex? (does the pumping get more vigorous lol? etc..)
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
War Against Betaism
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When you're banging, even though it feels great, you don't want to rush it. Take it slow. I'd suggest a whole list of R&B songs would do, but R&B in general would do. Though...
Take It Slow - Ying Yang Twins.
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yin yang twins
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Supremo
Senior Don Juan
Oh hell yeah man.venser said:
It may not sound true, but if you try to keep up with the beat of the techno music... you'll be caught up in that and end up lasting a lot longer.
Kind of a cool trick.
But slow songs aren't bad either. Those are for keepin it romantic n all that ****.
Fast songs are for releasing your primal urges and gettin down!
Hella fun dude. Good luck with that.
Few more that are perfect -
Alizee Remix - Benny Benassi
Suck on my Lollipop - DJ Alligator Project
Pretty much anything by BB is great for having sex to.
But whatever floats your boat.
Like I said, in my opinion, faster = more fun = better.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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jesusrules
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Thinking about it put on some heavy metal cause most likey she will hate it and be rough in bed..lol.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.