"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
What are some good songs to bang to?
- Thread starter venser
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Supremo
Senior Don Juan
Just a Lil' Bit - 50 Cent
Candy Shop - 50 Cent
The Way I Are - Timbaland
I Wanna **** You - Akon
Back that Ass Up - Juvenile
pretty much anything you can freak to
Techno (the best stuff)
Can You Feel the Bass - Benny Benassi
I Love My Sex - Benny Benassi
Play It Hard - DJ Dean
Make U Move (Rocco vs. Bass-T Remix) - DJ E-Maxx
Sextacy - East Clubbers
Sexplosion - East Clubbers
With techno, the best is stuff with higher BPM, around 130 or so is PRIMEEEEE.
counting crows - color blind
bloodhound gang - the bad touch
Remy Zero - Fair
Ben Harper - Sexual healing
Howie Day - collide
supremo you listed alot of faster songs "stuff you can freak to", generally i always thought of using slower songs. Whats your experience with the faster songs? Does it change the sex? (does the pumping get more vigorous lol? etc..)
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
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War Against Betaism
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When you're banging, even though it feels great, you don't want to rush it. Take it slow. I'd suggest a whole list of R&B songs would do, but R&B in general would do. Though...
Take It Slow - Ying Yang Twins.
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yin yang twins
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Supremo
Senior Don Juan
Oh hell yeah man.venser said:
It may not sound true, but if you try to keep up with the beat of the techno music... you'll be caught up in that and end up lasting a lot longer.
Kind of a cool trick.
But slow songs aren't bad either. Those are for keepin it romantic n all that ****.
Fast songs are for releasing your primal urges and gettin down!
Hella fun dude. Good luck with that.
Few more that are perfect -
Alizee Remix - Benny Benassi
Suck on my Lollipop - DJ Alligator Project
Pretty much anything by BB is great for having sex to.
But whatever floats your boat.
Like I said, in my opinion, faster = more fun = better.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Thinking about it put on some heavy metal cause most likey she will hate it and be rough in bed..lol.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.