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Master Don Juan
Working? Partying (or Socializing)? Being lazy and relaxed? Some or all of the above?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
What are Don Juans doing on Wednesday nights?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Master Don Juan
I myself have found some time to clean up my room and my car. Definately a necessity when having chicks over.
sparky1981
Don Juan
i work real hard so i'm not doing much on a wensday night just playin pc games or workin on my car, wacthing tv or maybe see a mate If i don't have a chick. If i do i head over to see her normally for some quiet fun
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
everywomanshero
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Casino (Comedy show and 80s Ladies night) Mental Health Centre (visited friend) Bar (hung out). You have to get out there.
Casino (Comedy show and 80s Ladies night) Mental Health Centre (visited friend) Bar (hung out). You have to get out there.
MightyMate
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Wednesday is small weekend - party!
Was out after work last night for a "quiet drink".
7 double Jack and cokes later, I managed to find my way home somehow.
confession: tried to sarge a HB4 milf on the train (WHAT WAS I THINKING???)
Out again tonight at my usual thursday night bar, so watch this space for the usual next day Field Report!
Fash
7 double Jack and cokes later, I managed to find my way home somehow.
confession: tried to sarge a HB4 milf on the train (WHAT WAS I THINKING???)
Out again tonight at my usual thursday night bar, so watch this space for the usual next day Field Report!
Fash
Tallerguy
Don Juan
Got one of my pivots to cook for me as my current GF is on courses and not around. I like getting looked after 
Tallerguy
"he who hesitates, masturbates"
Tallerguy
"he who hesitates, masturbates"
ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
WING NIGHT!!!
Hehe yeah, stayed away from here that's a good thing! Only one girl this wednesday though, last time it was three. I love wedensday night competitions with pals!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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even tho it's not wednesday anymore, BUMP