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Master Don Juan
Working? Partying (or Socializing)? Being lazy and relaxed? Some or all of the above?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
What are Don Juans doing on Wednesday nights?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Master Don Juan
I myself have found some time to clean up my room and my car. Definately a necessity when having chicks over.
sparky1981
Don Juan
i work real hard so i'm not doing much on a wensday night just playin pc games or workin on my car, wacthing tv or maybe see a mate If i don't have a chick. If i do i head over to see her normally for some quiet fun
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
everywomanshero
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Casino (Comedy show and 80s Ladies night) Mental Health Centre (visited friend) Bar (hung out). You have to get out there.
Casino (Comedy show and 80s Ladies night) Mental Health Centre (visited friend) Bar (hung out). You have to get out there.
MightyMate
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Wednesday is small weekend - party!
Was out after work last night for a "quiet drink".
7 double Jack and cokes later, I managed to find my way home somehow.
confession: tried to sarge a HB4 milf on the train (WHAT WAS I THINKING???)
Out again tonight at my usual thursday night bar, so watch this space for the usual next day Field Report!
Fash
7 double Jack and cokes later, I managed to find my way home somehow.
confession: tried to sarge a HB4 milf on the train (WHAT WAS I THINKING???)
Out again tonight at my usual thursday night bar, so watch this space for the usual next day Field Report!
Fash
Tallerguy
Don Juan
Got one of my pivots to cook for me as my current GF is on courses and not around. I like getting looked after 
Tallerguy
"he who hesitates, masturbates"
Tallerguy
"he who hesitates, masturbates"
ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
WING NIGHT!!!
Hehe yeah, stayed away from here that's a good thing! Only one girl this wednesday though, last time it was three. I love wedensday night competitions with pals!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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even tho it's not wednesday anymore, BUMP