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Master Don Juan
Working? Partying (or Socializing)? Being lazy and relaxed? Some or all of the above?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
What are Don Juans doing on Wednesday nights?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Master Don Juan
I myself have found some time to clean up my room and my car. Definately a necessity when having chicks over.
sparky1981
Don Juan
i work real hard so i'm not doing much on a wensday night just playin pc games or workin on my car, wacthing tv or maybe see a mate If i don't have a chick. If i do i head over to see her normally for some quiet fun
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
everywomanshero
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Casino (Comedy show and 80s Ladies night) Mental Health Centre (visited friend) Bar (hung out). You have to get out there.
Casino (Comedy show and 80s Ladies night) Mental Health Centre (visited friend) Bar (hung out). You have to get out there.
MightyMate
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Wednesday is small weekend - party!
Was out after work last night for a "quiet drink".
7 double Jack and cokes later, I managed to find my way home somehow.
confession: tried to sarge a HB4 milf on the train (WHAT WAS I THINKING???)
Out again tonight at my usual thursday night bar, so watch this space for the usual next day Field Report!
Fash
7 double Jack and cokes later, I managed to find my way home somehow.
confession: tried to sarge a HB4 milf on the train (WHAT WAS I THINKING???)
Out again tonight at my usual thursday night bar, so watch this space for the usual next day Field Report!
Fash
Tallerguy
Don Juan
Got one of my pivots to cook for me as my current GF is on courses and not around. I like getting looked after 
Tallerguy
"he who hesitates, masturbates"
Tallerguy
"he who hesitates, masturbates"
ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
WING NIGHT!!!
Hehe yeah, stayed away from here that's a good thing! Only one girl this wednesday though, last time it was three. I love wedensday night competitions with pals!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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even tho it's not wednesday anymore, BUMP