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Master Don Juan
Working? Partying (or Socializing)? Being lazy and relaxed? Some or all of the above?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
What are Don Juans doing on Wednesday nights?
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- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Master Don Juan
I myself have found some time to clean up my room and my car. Definately a necessity when having chicks over.
sparky1981
Don Juan
i work real hard so i'm not doing much on a wensday night just playin pc games or workin on my car, wacthing tv or maybe see a mate If i don't have a chick. If i do i head over to see her normally for some quiet fun
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
everywomanshero
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Casino (Comedy show and 80s Ladies night) Mental Health Centre (visited friend) Bar (hung out). You have to get out there.
Casino (Comedy show and 80s Ladies night) Mental Health Centre (visited friend) Bar (hung out). You have to get out there.
MightyMate
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Wednesday is small weekend - party!
Was out after work last night for a "quiet drink".
7 double Jack and cokes later, I managed to find my way home somehow.
confession: tried to sarge a HB4 milf on the train (WHAT WAS I THINKING???)
Out again tonight at my usual thursday night bar, so watch this space for the usual next day Field Report!
Fash
7 double Jack and cokes later, I managed to find my way home somehow.
confession: tried to sarge a HB4 milf on the train (WHAT WAS I THINKING???)
Out again tonight at my usual thursday night bar, so watch this space for the usual next day Field Report!
Fash
Tallerguy
Don Juan
Got one of my pivots to cook for me as my current GF is on courses and not around. I like getting looked after 
Tallerguy
"he who hesitates, masturbates"
Tallerguy
"he who hesitates, masturbates"
ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
WING NIGHT!!!
Hehe yeah, stayed away from here that's a good thing! Only one girl this wednesday though, last time it was three. I love wedensday night competitions with pals!
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Master Don Juan
even tho it's not wednesday anymore, BUMP