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Working? Partying (or Socializing)? Being lazy and relaxed? Some or all of the above?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
What are Don Juans doing on Wednesday nights?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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I myself have found some time to clean up my room and my car. Definately a necessity when having chicks over.
sparky1981
Don Juan
i work real hard so i'm not doing much on a wensday night just playin pc games or workin on my car, wacthing tv or maybe see a mate If i don't have a chick. If i do i head over to see her normally for some quiet fun
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
everywomanshero
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Casino (Comedy show and 80s Ladies night) Mental Health Centre (visited friend) Bar (hung out). You have to get out there.
Casino (Comedy show and 80s Ladies night) Mental Health Centre (visited friend) Bar (hung out). You have to get out there.
MightyMate
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Wednesday is small weekend - party!
Was out after work last night for a "quiet drink".
7 double Jack and cokes later, I managed to find my way home somehow.
confession: tried to sarge a HB4 milf on the train (WHAT WAS I THINKING???)
Out again tonight at my usual thursday night bar, so watch this space for the usual next day Field Report!
Fash
7 double Jack and cokes later, I managed to find my way home somehow.
confession: tried to sarge a HB4 milf on the train (WHAT WAS I THINKING???)
Out again tonight at my usual thursday night bar, so watch this space for the usual next day Field Report!
Fash
Tallerguy
Don Juan
Got one of my pivots to cook for me as my current GF is on courses and not around. I like getting looked after 
Tallerguy
"he who hesitates, masturbates"
Tallerguy
"he who hesitates, masturbates"
ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
WING NIGHT!!!
Hehe yeah, stayed away from here that's a good thing! Only one girl this wednesday though, last time it was three. I love wedensday night competitions with pals!
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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even tho it's not wednesday anymore, BUMP