Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
I’m GL, but not ‘model hot’.
"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"
The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.
Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.
Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.
Well...35 and 0.
- Thread starter GeezerBub
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
SW15
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@GeezerBub is in Toronto, which is one of the worst metro areas in North America for men. Lots of man hating feminists are running around Toronto.
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Toronto is a huge city...I am sure there are plenty who aren't.
GeezerBub
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Lols, oh trust me...I believe you. It's bad here...
SW15
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Every time that I think my city has a bad mating environment, which it does, I quickly think about Toronto, Washington DC, San Francisco, Portland (Oregon), and Seattle. Those cities have the reputations of having some of the worst environments for men. If things in my city are bad, I can't imagine how bad those cities are.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.