Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
I’m GL, but not ‘model hot’.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Well...35 and 0.
- Thread starter GeezerBub
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
SW15
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@GeezerBub is in Toronto, which is one of the worst metro areas in North America for men. Lots of man hating feminists are running around Toronto.
BackInTheGame78
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Toronto is a huge city...I am sure there are plenty who aren't.
GeezerBub
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Lols, oh trust me...I believe you. It's bad here...
SW15
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Every time that I think my city has a bad mating environment, which it does, I quickly think about Toronto, Washington DC, San Francisco, Portland (Oregon), and Seattle. Those cities have the reputations of having some of the worst environments for men. If things in my city are bad, I can't imagine how bad those cities are.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.