Weird girl

[TheCharmingGuy]

Think whatever you want. I don’t care

Then why did you post about it in a public forum…

 

[SargeMaximus]

But in all seriousness, I don't think I can help you with your dating problems lol.

I agree

 

[SargeMaximus]

Bro

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She's showing you lots of interest. Been hinting for you to take her to the museum this whole time.

Yes I know but as I said the museum is an hour and a half drive away. No thanks, not when I have girls who will me me for coffee like one today

Then why did you post about it in a public forum…

Just wanted to share a weirdo girl. Sue me

Also Im not into girls who want me for my hair

 

[Atom Smasher]

“What’s under the hat? An exceptional brain.”

 

[SargeMaximus]

OLD is very different than REAL.

You are entering into an arena of "qualification"

the simple act of putting up photos is asking to be qualified.

Take nothing personally.

I plan to update my
Photo after I unmatch her

“What’s under the hat? An exceptional brain.”

Cringe

 

[SargeMaximus]

Nice one on the Biology remark sarge.
Some women see hats as an insecurity. As a bald guy its just part of the deal. Some women next you due tk the lack of hair.
If you are bald sarge have atleast a pic up without a hat. It will weed out the ones with which is a deal breaker.
Either way have a pic showing your head.
I am bald and occasionally wear hats but dont mind at all without. Bald is a great look into its own.

I’m not bald. Far from it. I just always wear a hat. I like them. Girls tell me all the time they love my hair and I should stop wearing the hat. I tell them no

 

[Stuffnu]

Actually all my OLD‘s had pictures of me wearing ball caps as well.
I’m a jeans, t-shirt (or hoodie) and cap wearing dude since I was young enough to put them on. I have hair so it wasn’t to conceal.

Always deflect humorously to these questions. A simple “I’ll show you mine if you show me yours” or something to that effect. Going silent or unmatching is confirmation to her screening attempt. You will appear butt hurt - even if she’s wrong. Remember testing and screening is part of the courtship.
With respect, man up and don’t run.

However this girl was continuing to show interest - why ghost? You should simply hit her up for a drink to discuss the human anatomy, photosynthesis or any corny biology terminology.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Awesome. But still show off the hair in a pic. Then its a non issue. May work in your favor both ways

I will, after I unmatch her. I am annoyed at being inspected like a cantaloupe and she lost her chance with me.

 

[zinc4]

Serious question why must these new age dating app sloots always have to tell us how "independent" they are?

It's so cringe and instantly negates them to PND material at best for me. Hilarious how they say it like they are bragging or some ****.

 

[zinc4]

Actually all my OLD‘s had pictures of me wearing ball caps as well.
I’m a jeans, t-shirt (or hoodie) and cap wearing dude since I was young enough to put them on. I have hair so it wasn’t to conceal.

Always deflect humorously to these questions. A simple “I’ll show you mine if you show me yours” or something to that effect. Going silent or unmatching is confirmation to her screening attempt. You will appear butt hurt - even if she’s wrong. Remember testing and screening is part of the courtship.
With respect, man up and don’t run.

However this girl was continuing to show interest - why ghost? You should simply hit her up for a drink to discuss the human anatomy, photosynthesis or any corny biology terminology.

Agreed. Easy lay imo.

 

[bat soup]

I'm going to add this to my list of pickup techniques - get into a conversation about hats.

 

[Bokanovsky]

She wants to know if you are bald/balding. Not an unreasonable request IMO.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

@SargeMaximus Got a taste of what bald guys go through.

I've shaved my hair and it's never been an issue. The way you handle the situation is a far bigger problem than the actual problem.

 

[mrskinnypantz]

She just wanted to see what was under the cap
Bald men wear caps to hide their balding, this is called “hat fishing”
Online women are pretty aggressive when it comes to stuff like this, I’m always on FaceTime “proving I’m not a catfishing”
The only thing I HATE about OLD
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[TheCharmingGuy]

Only the guys who give a fck about there hair. Shave it and move on. Your life is not hair.

Sounds like someone who doesn’t have great hair. Mine is my best feature and all the girls love it.

 

[derby1]

the audacity of these h*es, they filter their pics to look like a GTAV hooker, and make out your the one deceiving.

However dont be so sensitive to this stuff OP.

and I agree @zinc4 the word independent gives me E.D

 

[Igetit!]

The way you handle the situation is a far bigger problem than the actual problem.

Yep. He's created a bigger problem than it had to be. This is just how it is...for BOTH SEXES.

If you have multiple pics of yourself with you not smiling in any of them,they'll ask you why you're not smiling. Not because they care,but because they want to make sure you have TEETH.

Same with us guys when a chick only has pics up close of her face. If all we can see is her face,we're going to wonder what her body looks like,and will likely ask if she has any pics of her body.

You can call it superficial,but that's just how it is. This girl wasn't weird. She's just human.


If you have 6 pics of yourself,and in all 6 you're wearing a hat......they're going to wonder how you look without the hat. Just how it is.

Amazing how people can make a mountain out of a molehill over something so minor. And this WILL NOT BE limited to only this girl. I'd venture to say that every girl the OP matches up with will ask this same question at some point if his head is covered in all his pics.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Yep. He's created a bigger problem than it had to be. This is just how it is...for BOTH SEXES.

If you have multiple pics of yourself with you not smiling in any of them,they'll ask you why you're not smiling. Not because they care,but because they want to make sure you have TEETH.

Same with us guys when a chick only has pics up close of her face. If all we can see is her face,we're going to wonder what her body looks like,and will likely ask if she has any pics of her body.

You can call it superficial,but that's just how it is. This girl wasn't weird. She's just human.


If you have 6 pics of yourself,and in all 6 you're wearing a hat......they're going to wonder how you look without the hat. Just how it is.

Amazing how people can make a mountain out of a molehill over something so minor. And this WILL NOT BE limited to only this girl. I'd venture to say that every girl the OP matches up with will ask this same question at some point if his head is covered in all his pics.

This is literally the first girl who has ever asked after years of online dating

 

[Modern Man Advice]

Hey just matched with a weird girl. She’s one of those people that doesn’t like when someone is wearing a hat. I’m going to be low interest unless she can get her head out of her @ss. Pics below

As a few members have stated, I do not (personally) find her weird for that hat comment. If all your pics are of you on a hat, it is only natural for a woman to want to ask. Whether she will find baldness (which you have stated you are not) attractive or not, she is looking to see what you fully look like.

It is online dating so not sure what you expect but people screening each other purely by physical traits. If you don't like that, then you are in the wrong environment looking to date.

What I do find as a red flag for this girl is this statement "I am independent" right off the bat. Watch out for the female empowerment mindset. Not saying I'm against "independent" women, but I find it off she will make an effort to tell you off the bat.

PS: It doesn't help you to become aggressive/hostile towards other members, everyone has their own perspective and as I said to another member the other day, you are most likely posting to seek perspective and that is what you will get.

Hope this helps.


Modern Man Advice

 

[Igetit!]

This is literally the first girl who has ever asked after years of online dating

Oh. Well...then that is weird.

Not that she asked that,but that it's the first time you've encountered it after years of online dating with hat pics.

I still don't see it as any reason to blow things up over. Not like you found out she was psycho,a murderer,or had some deadly contagious disease.......it just over a hat on your head. Sometimes I feel it's a wonder the human race even continues to exist at all when such petty horsesh1t can derail things between a man and a woman.