Hitman10000
Master Don Juan
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
MissGrape said:should the ugly guys out there be looking for girls with issues then?:crazy:
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Just don't use the word "LOOKS" then we'll be ok! DoooooooooH! I just used it!!!Francisco d'Anconia said:Psssstttt... I don't think Paradox found this thread yet...![]()
backbreaker said:lol... yes it's usually LSE. in my old oneitises case It was an (she won't confim but i had ample evidinence) absuive father...she won't stay home if her mom isn't home with her to this day.
anyway, the grand point is, why even worry about these chcks anyway?
I mean, would you give and credience to anyone who said "yeah.. you know.. I know i cna drive a porshe, but i perfer Geo's"
didn´t mystery date that one chick in the pink?ricorico said:Or someone who takes time and effort to look good,but then walks around with a troll who does'nt even worry about his gut hanging out of his pants or one who has'nt been to the dentist in Lord knows how long. Anyone thinks a girl who care so much about her physical appearance to others willing to walk around with a pet chimp is normal they are kidding themselves.
Trust me, these dudes have tons of issues. Look who they're pursuing? A therapist would have a field day with this group of guys!! To think they actually pay money to meet these Rhino's!
http://www.bbwpartyct.com/events/year2006/08-05-2006/08-05-2006-CTParty 055.jpg
CAUTION!!! If you just ate, do not look!!!!This proves guys who like these girls are crazy and have LSE issues!!!
http://www.bbwpartyct.com/events/year2005/07-2-3-2005/100-0064_IMG.JPG
http://www.bbwpartyct.com/events/year2005/07-2-3-2005/100-0065_IMG.JPG
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
ricorico said:...
Trust me, these dudes have tons of issues. Look who they're pursuing? A therapist would have a field day with this group of guys!! To think they actually pay money to meet these Rhino's!
http://www.bbwpartyct.com/events/year2006/08-05-2006/08-05-2006-CTParty%20055.jpg
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:Francisco d'Anconia said:Wait a second, I see a similarity between the couples in this picture...
This makes no sense to me. Since when do uglier guys have better immune systems? Wouldn't better looking guys look healthier because they actually ARE healthier meaning they have survival skills (strength, immunity, intelligence from genes)?Researchers at Newcastle University also believe ugly men exist as a way of repairing our gene pool. Women would rather date men with good genes, who can fight disease easily, than a classically beautiful man.
They're alluding to "natural looks." No hyper-enhanced chemical structures based on mega doses of food supplements and huge amounts of health club hours which enhance bodies from their natural state.mrRuckus said:...
Am I reading that wrong?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.