Hitman10000
Master Don Juan
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She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
MissGrape said:should the ugly guys out there be looking for girls with issues then?:crazy:
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Just don't use the word "LOOKS" then we'll be ok! DoooooooooH! I just used it!!!Francisco d'Anconia said:Psssstttt... I don't think Paradox found this thread yet...![]()
backbreaker said:lol... yes it's usually LSE. in my old oneitises case It was an (she won't confim but i had ample evidinence) absuive father...she won't stay home if her mom isn't home with her to this day.
anyway, the grand point is, why even worry about these chcks anyway?
I mean, would you give and credience to anyone who said "yeah.. you know.. I know i cna drive a porshe, but i perfer Geo's"
didn´t mystery date that one chick in the pink?ricorico said:Or someone who takes time and effort to look good,but then walks around with a troll who does'nt even worry about his gut hanging out of his pants or one who has'nt been to the dentist in Lord knows how long. Anyone thinks a girl who care so much about her physical appearance to others willing to walk around with a pet chimp is normal they are kidding themselves.
Trust me, these dudes have tons of issues. Look who they're pursuing? A therapist would have a field day with this group of guys!! To think they actually pay money to meet these Rhino's!
http://www.bbwpartyct.com/events/year2006/08-05-2006/08-05-2006-CTParty 055.jpg
CAUTION!!! If you just ate, do not look!!!!This proves guys who like these girls are crazy and have LSE issues!!!
http://www.bbwpartyct.com/events/year2005/07-2-3-2005/100-0064_IMG.JPG
http://www.bbwpartyct.com/events/year2005/07-2-3-2005/100-0065_IMG.JPG
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
ricorico said:...
Trust me, these dudes have tons of issues. Look who they're pursuing? A therapist would have a field day with this group of guys!! To think they actually pay money to meet these Rhino's!
http://www.bbwpartyct.com/events/year2006/08-05-2006/08-05-2006-CTParty%20055.jpg
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:Francisco d'Anconia said:Wait a second, I see a similarity between the couples in this picture...
This makes no sense to me. Since when do uglier guys have better immune systems? Wouldn't better looking guys look healthier because they actually ARE healthier meaning they have survival skills (strength, immunity, intelligence from genes)?Researchers at Newcastle University also believe ugly men exist as a way of repairing our gene pool. Women would rather date men with good genes, who can fight disease easily, than a classically beautiful man.
They're alluding to "natural looks." No hyper-enhanced chemical structures based on mega doses of food supplements and huge amounts of health club hours which enhance bodies from their natural state.mrRuckus said:...
Am I reading that wrong?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.