"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"We only date ugly men"

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Usually an attractive people who will only date UGGs are have tons of issues.

There are clubs were guys some who are in fit and good looking go to meet morbidly obese women who are ugly as sin. Does that mean all guys have bad taste? No, it means those guys have low self esteem issues just like women who aim low.

http://www.eddyelmer.com/diary/diarystart.html?http:
 

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I recently had a convo with some girls. Maybe 4 or 5 girls. They were all pretty attractive. Basically they agreed women go for the most powerful male personality wise. EXEPT the one girl was a feminist and she liked guys who were insecure and **** like that. Basically she was looking for the ultimate afc. Shes pretty attractive though.. but mad insecure. Like crazy insecure. I guess she wants to be dominant. Oh and she definately thinks guys are inferior. That chick HATES ME.
 

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MissGrape said:
should the ugly guys out there be looking for girls with issues then?:D :crazy:

Damn right! For a one night stand, hot girls with LSE issues are great. It's just dealing with them on the erveryday bases which is toture. In exactly the same way a girl may find a good-looking guy with LSE boring,but goiod to show off.
 

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my old oneitis was like that... she would not date a cute guy (part of the reason she wouldn't date me)..> I used to litearly beat myself over the head wondering why i was so damn cursed.. this girl was smokin hot and everyong she dated looked like an e-walk and she admitted it.

people like that, like her, have self esteem issues. she would rather date an ungly guy who worshiped the ground he walked on than to date a guy that had options or a backbone. the more the guy sucke dup to her, the more she loved it.

of course, i eventually realized she was a nut job and moved on
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I wouldnt take notice of this article purely on the basis that is the S*N, SCUM. They have be KNOWN for fabricating lies in their newspapers just look at the Hillsborough disaster that took place in the U.K. they made up lies about that event. So to trust them on this one is 50/50!!!

For the topics' sake Ill "pretend" that it wasnt the "SUN" that printed this article and give my view...

My view is that as we should ALL know that each woman likes a different type of MAN, so in this case the several woman that the SCUM ( I mean Sun) found liked the AVERAGE looking guy, but wait, surely we have been here BEFORE? Have we not READ COUNTLESS articles about some women preferring guys with black hair, some women preffering muscular guys etc... All the SCUM managed to do here is to now PERSUADE and PERCEIVE the public to think that HOT girls go for UGLY guys, yes, they right, they DO. HOWEVER , In the MAJORITY, in the MAIN... A good LOOKING girl wants to MATE with a good LOOKING guy. I can type a few more pages about this theory about "Do looks matter" - But, we have been THERE BEFORE. All Im pointing out in this article aside from the fact that its the SUN that are known for lies is that their are attractive looking woman out there that dont go for looks but thats still in the MINORITY and THE SUN managed to do a little research and found a few woman that like UNATTRACTIVE GUYS.
 

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everyone has different reasons for everything.... yeah my old oneitis pretty much told me she only talks to unattractive men, because in her words "I know they aren't going anywhere and i know they will do what i say"...

doesn't mean she wasn't attractted to better looking men.. but as far as dating/courtship, it was ugmo only.
 

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As the article in my link stated from a psychological point of view, good looking people who settle for UGGS usually have LSE issues due to their upbringing .
 

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Psssstttt... I don't think Paradox found this thread yet... :p
 

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lol... yes it's usually LSE. in my old oneitises case It was an (she won't confim but i had ample evidinence) absuive father...she won't stay home if her mom isn't home with her to this day.

anyway, the grand point is, why even worry about these chcks anyway?

I mean, would you give and credience to anyone who said "yeah.. you know.. I know i cna drive a porshe, but i perfer Geo's"
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Psssstttt... I don't think Paradox found this thread yet... :p
Just don't use the word "LOOKS" then we'll be ok! DoooooooooH! I just used it!!!
 

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For the first chick, her intentions are obvious:

"Ugly men try harder. They care more about you and treat you like a princess"

It's all about control for her. She and women like her like that they're the more attractive one in the relationship and that have the power because they think they're the best that these AFC ugly dudes can get.

The second chick actually seems like she has her head on straight, and is choosing this guy because she actually appreciates him as a person. Right on. Women like this are in the rare minority though.
 

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backbreaker said:
lol... yes it's usually LSE. in my old oneitises case It was an (she won't confim but i had ample evidinence) absuive father...she won't stay home if her mom isn't home with her to this day.

anyway, the grand point is, why even worry about these chcks anyway?

I mean, would you give and credience to anyone who said "yeah.. you know.. I know i cna drive a porshe, but i perfer Geo's"

Or someone who takes time and effort to look good,but then walks around with a troll who does'nt even worry about his gut hanging out of his pants or one who has'nt been to the dentist in Lord knows how long. Anyone thinks a girl who care so much about her physical appearance to others willing to walk around with a pet chimp is normal they are kidding themselves.


Trust me, these dudes have tons of issues. Look who they're pursuing? A therapist would have a field day with this group of guys!! To think they actually pay money to meet these Rhino's!
http://www.bbwpartyct.com/events/year2006/08-05-2006/08-05-2006-CTParty 055.jpg


CAUTION!!! If you just ate, do not look!!!!This proves guys who like these girls are crazy and have LSE issues!!!

http://www.bbwpartyct.com/events/year2005/07-2-3-2005/100-0064_IMG.JPG


http://www.bbwpartyct.com/events/year2005/07-2-3-2005/100-0065_IMG.JPG
 

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Yeah, my old roomate would date BBW women exclusively. He was a decent looking guy, and we always told him he could do better. He had low self esteem and he sort of felt like he was only worthy of women that were less attractive than him. He felt unworthy of pursing more attractive women.

And yes, he saw a therapist weekly.

As for me, I would die of embarassment to be seen with a nasty chick like that.
 

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ricorico said:
Or someone who takes time and effort to look good,but then walks around with a troll who does'nt even worry about his gut hanging out of his pants or one who has'nt been to the dentist in Lord knows how long. Anyone thinks a girl who care so much about her physical appearance to others willing to walk around with a pet chimp is normal they are kidding themselves.


Trust me, these dudes have tons of issues. Look who they're pursuing? A therapist would have a field day with this group of guys!! To think they actually pay money to meet these Rhino's!
http://www.bbwpartyct.com/events/year2006/08-05-2006/08-05-2006-CTParty 055.jpg


CAUTION!!! If you just ate, do not look!!!!This proves guys who like these girls are crazy and have LSE issues!!!

http://www.bbwpartyct.com/events/year2005/07-2-3-2005/100-0064_IMG.JPG


http://www.bbwpartyct.com/events/year2005/07-2-3-2005/100-0065_IMG.JPG
didn´t mystery date that one chick in the pink?:confused:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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damn! The fat chick in pink really knows how to dress up for a party. She even had hot pink matching Flip-Flops. Wonder which of the "Cough,cough" lucky fellows got to take her ass home? Probably a guy who drives a bus as that ass can't ppssibly fit in a car or SUV.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
:eek: Wait a second, I see a similarity between the couples in this picture...
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

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Researchers at Newcastle University also believe ugly men exist as a way of repairing our gene pool. Women would rather date men with good genes, who can fight disease easily, than a classically beautiful man.
This makes no sense to me. Since when do uglier guys have better immune systems? Wouldn't better looking guys look healthier because they actually ARE healthier meaning they have survival skills (strength, immunity, intelligence from genes)?

Unless of course "classically beautiful man" means metrosexual, in which case that's not even classic.

Am I reading that wrong?
 

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Am I reading that wrong?
They're alluding to "natural looks." No hyper-enhanced chemical structures based on mega doses of food supplements and huge amounts of health club hours which enhance bodies from their natural state.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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