Hitman10000
Master Don Juan
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She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
MissGrape said:should the ugly guys out there be looking for girls with issues then?:crazy:
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Just don't use the word "LOOKS" then we'll be ok! DoooooooooH! I just used it!!!Francisco d'Anconia said:Psssstttt... I don't think Paradox found this thread yet...![]()
backbreaker said:lol... yes it's usually LSE. in my old oneitises case It was an (she won't confim but i had ample evidinence) absuive father...she won't stay home if her mom isn't home with her to this day.
anyway, the grand point is, why even worry about these chcks anyway?
I mean, would you give and credience to anyone who said "yeah.. you know.. I know i cna drive a porshe, but i perfer Geo's"
didn´t mystery date that one chick in the pink?ricorico said:Or someone who takes time and effort to look good,but then walks around with a troll who does'nt even worry about his gut hanging out of his pants or one who has'nt been to the dentist in Lord knows how long. Anyone thinks a girl who care so much about her physical appearance to others willing to walk around with a pet chimp is normal they are kidding themselves.
Trust me, these dudes have tons of issues. Look who they're pursuing? A therapist would have a field day with this group of guys!! To think they actually pay money to meet these Rhino's!
http://www.bbwpartyct.com/events/year2006/08-05-2006/08-05-2006-CTParty 055.jpg
CAUTION!!! If you just ate, do not look!!!!This proves guys who like these girls are crazy and have LSE issues!!!
http://www.bbwpartyct.com/events/year2005/07-2-3-2005/100-0064_IMG.JPG
http://www.bbwpartyct.com/events/year2005/07-2-3-2005/100-0065_IMG.JPG
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
ricorico said:...
Trust me, these dudes have tons of issues. Look who they're pursuing? A therapist would have a field day with this group of guys!! To think they actually pay money to meet these Rhino's!
http://www.bbwpartyct.com/events/year2006/08-05-2006/08-05-2006-CTParty%20055.jpg
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:Francisco d'Anconia said:Wait a second, I see a similarity between the couples in this picture...
This makes no sense to me. Since when do uglier guys have better immune systems? Wouldn't better looking guys look healthier because they actually ARE healthier meaning they have survival skills (strength, immunity, intelligence from genes)?Researchers at Newcastle University also believe ugly men exist as a way of repairing our gene pool. Women would rather date men with good genes, who can fight disease easily, than a classically beautiful man.
They're alluding to "natural looks." No hyper-enhanced chemical structures based on mega doses of food supplements and huge amounts of health club hours which enhance bodies from their natural state.mrRuckus said:...
Am I reading that wrong?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.