Hitman10000
Master Don Juan
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You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
MissGrape said:should the ugly guys out there be looking for girls with issues then?:crazy:
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Just don't use the word "LOOKS" then we'll be ok! DoooooooooH! I just used it!!!Francisco d'Anconia said:Psssstttt... I don't think Paradox found this thread yet...![]()
backbreaker said:lol... yes it's usually LSE. in my old oneitises case It was an (she won't confim but i had ample evidinence) absuive father...she won't stay home if her mom isn't home with her to this day.
anyway, the grand point is, why even worry about these chcks anyway?
I mean, would you give and credience to anyone who said "yeah.. you know.. I know i cna drive a porshe, but i perfer Geo's"
didn´t mystery date that one chick in the pink?ricorico said:Or someone who takes time and effort to look good,but then walks around with a troll who does'nt even worry about his gut hanging out of his pants or one who has'nt been to the dentist in Lord knows how long. Anyone thinks a girl who care so much about her physical appearance to others willing to walk around with a pet chimp is normal they are kidding themselves.
Trust me, these dudes have tons of issues. Look who they're pursuing? A therapist would have a field day with this group of guys!! To think they actually pay money to meet these Rhino's!
http://www.bbwpartyct.com/events/year2006/08-05-2006/08-05-2006-CTParty 055.jpg
CAUTION!!! If you just ate, do not look!!!!This proves guys who like these girls are crazy and have LSE issues!!!
http://www.bbwpartyct.com/events/year2005/07-2-3-2005/100-0064_IMG.JPG
http://www.bbwpartyct.com/events/year2005/07-2-3-2005/100-0065_IMG.JPG
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
ricorico said:...
Trust me, these dudes have tons of issues. Look who they're pursuing? A therapist would have a field day with this group of guys!! To think they actually pay money to meet these Rhino's!
http://www.bbwpartyct.com/events/year2006/08-05-2006/08-05-2006-CTParty%20055.jpg
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:Francisco d'Anconia said:Wait a second, I see a similarity between the couples in this picture...
This makes no sense to me. Since when do uglier guys have better immune systems? Wouldn't better looking guys look healthier because they actually ARE healthier meaning they have survival skills (strength, immunity, intelligence from genes)?Researchers at Newcastle University also believe ugly men exist as a way of repairing our gene pool. Women would rather date men with good genes, who can fight disease easily, than a classically beautiful man.
They're alluding to "natural looks." No hyper-enhanced chemical structures based on mega doses of food supplements and huge amounts of health club hours which enhance bodies from their natural state.mrRuckus said:...
Am I reading that wrong?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.