"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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We just broke up and shes giving me a month to get out!!!

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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orbit123 said:
Nah I didn't even bother. We both realize the relationship is over.
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I think he means doing the jedi mind trick and saying "you will be reasonable and let me stay", and flash your hands infront of her, and then she is supposed to repeat the same words and do what you say.
 
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corrector said:
I think he means doing the jedi mind trick and saying "you will be reasonable and let me stay", and flash your hands infront of her, and then she is supposed to repeat the same words and do what you say.
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orbit123 said:
Hi guys,

So the bomb was dropped on me last night. The signs were on the wall that she was gonna break up with me. My name is not on the rental lease. She kept on saying I had to help out more around the house, get along with her daughter, get a job, and much more. I have 15K saved up and no job and the rents in my area are 2k per month. I also have full custody of my 10 year old son. She is only giving me 30 days to get out. My mind is cloudy right now from the shock of all of this. The relationship is definitely over. I need a game plan from all of you for what I should be doing because I only have a month to get out. Thanks
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Grow up dude.
 
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Billtx49 said:
Bottom line is some of the legal aspect may well reside in the lease terms she signed into originally. If the lease prohibits other adults living there that are not on the lease the landlord has three options, declare the lease broken and evict both, evict only those not on the lease agreement, or the most common solution, make them sign onto the lease also. Which opens him up legally to at least 1/2 the rent liability if she wants to force it…
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In the US there is no such thing as selective evictions. You must evict everyone or evict noone.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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