dj ben2
Senior Don Juan
i hear ppl tlakin bout em what exactly are they asnd how do u do em
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
waht are flys/flies?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Come on nosmirk, what was the point in that just because the message was poorly typed?
They're best illustrated by an animation - as always, ExRx, http://www.exrx.net/WeightExercises/PectoralSternal/DBFly.html
-shaun
They're best illustrated by an animation - as always, ExRx, http://www.exrx.net/WeightExercises/PectoralSternal/DBFly.html
-shaun
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
"waht are fly/flies?"
Something you don't need to do.
Something you don't need to do.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
dj ben2
Senior Don Juan
lol at smirk is ok u can pay me out about grammar if u wanna but i dun care ill just read it and think lol what a dik ... no offence taken
Forget those,you can easily injury yourself doing the plain flat dumbbell flys. If you want to do them with dumbbells,so them as you would inclines but fly style,but I personally feel the best way to do flys are the cables.
Incline flies are a decent exercise from what I've read - good trainers like ironaddict include incline flies in some of their programs, so they must be reasonable.
@dj_ben2 - try alternating them with incline DB press, higher reps (8-12).
-shaun
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
I've seen noticeable gains in my pec and definitely tri size with a simple bench, incline bench, dip routine.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
I do my flat with barbell, and incline with the DBs.