"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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waht are flys/flies?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"waht are fly/flies?"


Something you don't need to do.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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lol at smirk is ok u can pay me out about grammar if u wanna but i dun care ill just read it and think lol what a dik ... no offence taken
 

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Forget those,you can easily injury yourself doing the plain flat dumbbell flys. If you want to do them with dumbbells,so them as you would inclines but fly style,but I personally feel the best way to do flys are the cables.
 

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Something you don't need to do.
Incline flies are a decent exercise from what I've read - good trainers like ironaddict include incline flies in some of their programs, so they must be reasonable.

@dj_ben2 - try alternating them with incline DB press, higher reps (8-12).

-shaun
 

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I've seen noticeable gains in my pec and definitely tri size with a simple bench, incline bench, dip routine.
 

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I've seen noticeable gains in my pec and definitely tri size with a simple bench, incline bench, dip routine.
Aye, of course you have, because that's a solid chest day. Just out of interest Skilla, do you tend to bench with dumbbells or with barbells bud (or both)?

-shaun
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I do my flat with barbell, and incline with the DBs.
 
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