"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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waht are flys/flies?

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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"waht are fly/flies?"


Something you don't need to do.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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lol at smirk is ok u can pay me out about grammar if u wanna but i dun care ill just read it and think lol what a dik ... no offence taken
 

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Forget those,you can easily injury yourself doing the plain flat dumbbell flys. If you want to do them with dumbbells,so them as you would inclines but fly style,but I personally feel the best way to do flys are the cables.
 

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Something you don't need to do.
Incline flies are a decent exercise from what I've read - good trainers like ironaddict include incline flies in some of their programs, so they must be reasonable.

@dj_ben2 - try alternating them with incline DB press, higher reps (8-12).

-shaun
 

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I've seen noticeable gains in my pec and definitely tri size with a simple bench, incline bench, dip routine.
 

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I've seen noticeable gains in my pec and definitely tri size with a simple bench, incline bench, dip routine.
Aye, of course you have, because that's a solid chest day. Just out of interest Skilla, do you tend to bench with dumbbells or with barbells bud (or both)?

-shaun
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I do my flat with barbell, and incline with the DBs.
 
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