I agree with all of the hidden messages. The one about "you remind me of your brother" may not always mean the same thing though. I head on Love Line that women marry men who are similar to males they grew up around, like dads, grandpas, and brothers. This is what their ideas of a man are. Does anyone agree with this?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
W0manese!
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
needtobeloved
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In ******** what do the following mean please?
"You are a really lovely guy"
"I don't feel the same way"
"You are a really lovely guy"
"I don't feel the same way"
metalmilitia
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wow.. never noticed there were so many different ways to get rejected 
"I only see you as a friend"
Well, there was once this girl, several years older, who told me she wants nothing out of our relationship other than being friends.
She knew I had feelings for her, but always gave me hints that we can't get beyond friendship. One day I upset her, she says "bye" and goes away.
I considered that she doesn't want to see me anymore, so I totally ignored her presence, as if she doesn't exist.
A while later she talked to me again, and a while later she said that she loves me
It showed her I'm not desperate, I have a life, I can get other women.
So whenver a girl tells you that she only wants you as a friend, keep those DJ tactics on fire, if you play your cards right, she'll fall anyway.
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When a girl says "It's okay/fine", it means "It's NOT okay/fine"
Cheers.
Well, there was once this girl, several years older, who told me she wants nothing out of our relationship other than being friends.
She knew I had feelings for her, but always gave me hints that we can't get beyond friendship. One day I upset her, she says "bye" and goes away.
I considered that she doesn't want to see me anymore, so I totally ignored her presence, as if she doesn't exist.
A while later she talked to me again, and a while later she said that she loves me
It showed her I'm not desperate, I have a life, I can get other women.
So whenver a girl tells you that she only wants you as a friend, keep those DJ tactics on fire, if you play your cards right, she'll fall anyway.
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When a girl says "It's okay/fine", it means "It's NOT okay/fine"
Cheers.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
got a woman3se question for you.
Her: "Yeah, guys here suck at flirting."
Me: "Yeah, guys suck in general and men are friggen awesome."
Her: "Yeah, you need to teach men how to flirt. You could call it flirting 101."
Me: "thanks..."
I wasn't really expecting it, but I got that from both of the girls at the table. I knew both of them for a long while. I would always flirt with them all the time.
comic_relief
Her: "Yeah, guys here suck at flirting."
Me: "Yeah, guys suck in general and men are friggen awesome."
Her: "Yeah, you need to teach men how to flirt. You could call it flirting 101."
Me: "thanks..."
I wasn't really expecting it, but I got that from both of the girls at the table. I knew both of them for a long while. I would always flirt with them all the time.
comic_relief