I agree with all of the hidden messages. The one about "you remind me of your brother" may not always mean the same thing though. I head on Love Line that women marry men who are similar to males they grew up around, like dads, grandpas, and brothers. This is what their ideas of a man are. Does anyone agree with this?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
needtobeloved
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In ******** what do the following mean please?
"You are a really lovely guy"
"I don't feel the same way"
"You are a really lovely guy"
"I don't feel the same way"
metalmilitia
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wow.. never noticed there were so many different ways to get rejected 
"I only see you as a friend"
Well, there was once this girl, several years older, who told me she wants nothing out of our relationship other than being friends.
She knew I had feelings for her, but always gave me hints that we can't get beyond friendship. One day I upset her, she says "bye" and goes away.
I considered that she doesn't want to see me anymore, so I totally ignored her presence, as if she doesn't exist.
A while later she talked to me again, and a while later she said that she loves me
It showed her I'm not desperate, I have a life, I can get other women.
So whenver a girl tells you that she only wants you as a friend, keep those DJ tactics on fire, if you play your cards right, she'll fall anyway.
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When a girl says "It's okay/fine", it means "It's NOT okay/fine"
Cheers.
Well, there was once this girl, several years older, who told me she wants nothing out of our relationship other than being friends.
She knew I had feelings for her, but always gave me hints that we can't get beyond friendship. One day I upset her, she says "bye" and goes away.
I considered that she doesn't want to see me anymore, so I totally ignored her presence, as if she doesn't exist.
A while later she talked to me again, and a while later she said that she loves me
It showed her I'm not desperate, I have a life, I can get other women.
So whenver a girl tells you that she only wants you as a friend, keep those DJ tactics on fire, if you play your cards right, she'll fall anyway.
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When a girl says "It's okay/fine", it means "It's NOT okay/fine"
Cheers.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
got a woman3se question for you.
Her: "Yeah, guys here suck at flirting."
Me: "Yeah, guys suck in general and men are friggen awesome."
Her: "Yeah, you need to teach men how to flirt. You could call it flirting 101."
Me: "thanks..."
I wasn't really expecting it, but I got that from both of the girls at the table. I knew both of them for a long while. I would always flirt with them all the time.
comic_relief
Her: "Yeah, guys here suck at flirting."
Me: "Yeah, guys suck in general and men are friggen awesome."
Her: "Yeah, you need to teach men how to flirt. You could call it flirting 101."
Me: "thanks..."
I wasn't really expecting it, but I got that from both of the girls at the table. I knew both of them for a long while. I would always flirt with them all the time.
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