I agree with all of the hidden messages. The one about "you remind me of your brother" may not always mean the same thing though. I head on Love Line that women marry men who are similar to males they grew up around, like dads, grandpas, and brothers. This is what their ideas of a man are. Does anyone agree with this?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
W0manese!
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
needtobeloved
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In ******** what do the following mean please?
"You are a really lovely guy"
"I don't feel the same way"
"You are a really lovely guy"
"I don't feel the same way"
metalmilitia
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wow.. never noticed there were so many different ways to get rejected 
"I only see you as a friend"
Well, there was once this girl, several years older, who told me she wants nothing out of our relationship other than being friends.
She knew I had feelings for her, but always gave me hints that we can't get beyond friendship. One day I upset her, she says "bye" and goes away.
I considered that she doesn't want to see me anymore, so I totally ignored her presence, as if she doesn't exist.
A while later she talked to me again, and a while later she said that she loves me
It showed her I'm not desperate, I have a life, I can get other women.
So whenver a girl tells you that she only wants you as a friend, keep those DJ tactics on fire, if you play your cards right, she'll fall anyway.
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When a girl says "It's okay/fine", it means "It's NOT okay/fine"
Cheers.
Well, there was once this girl, several years older, who told me she wants nothing out of our relationship other than being friends.
She knew I had feelings for her, but always gave me hints that we can't get beyond friendship. One day I upset her, she says "bye" and goes away.
I considered that she doesn't want to see me anymore, so I totally ignored her presence, as if she doesn't exist.
A while later she talked to me again, and a while later she said that she loves me
It showed her I'm not desperate, I have a life, I can get other women.
So whenver a girl tells you that she only wants you as a friend, keep those DJ tactics on fire, if you play your cards right, she'll fall anyway.
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When a girl says "It's okay/fine", it means "It's NOT okay/fine"
Cheers.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
got a woman3se question for you.
Her: "Yeah, guys here suck at flirting."
Me: "Yeah, guys suck in general and men are friggen awesome."
Her: "Yeah, you need to teach men how to flirt. You could call it flirting 101."
Me: "thanks..."
I wasn't really expecting it, but I got that from both of the girls at the table. I knew both of them for a long while. I would always flirt with them all the time.
comic_relief
Her: "Yeah, guys here suck at flirting."
Me: "Yeah, guys suck in general and men are friggen awesome."
Her: "Yeah, you need to teach men how to flirt. You could call it flirting 101."
Me: "thanks..."
I wasn't really expecting it, but I got that from both of the girls at the table. I knew both of them for a long while. I would always flirt with them all the time.
comic_relief