I agree with all of the hidden messages. The one about "you remind me of your brother" may not always mean the same thing though. I head on Love Line that women marry men who are similar to males they grew up around, like dads, grandpas, and brothers. This is what their ideas of a man are. Does anyone agree with this?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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In ******** what do the following mean please?
"You are a really lovely guy"
"I don't feel the same way"
"You are a really lovely guy"
"I don't feel the same way"
metalmilitia
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wow.. never noticed there were so many different ways to get rejected 
"I only see you as a friend"
Well, there was once this girl, several years older, who told me she wants nothing out of our relationship other than being friends.
She knew I had feelings for her, but always gave me hints that we can't get beyond friendship. One day I upset her, she says "bye" and goes away.
I considered that she doesn't want to see me anymore, so I totally ignored her presence, as if she doesn't exist.
A while later she talked to me again, and a while later she said that she loves me
It showed her I'm not desperate, I have a life, I can get other women.
So whenver a girl tells you that she only wants you as a friend, keep those DJ tactics on fire, if you play your cards right, she'll fall anyway.
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When a girl says "It's okay/fine", it means "It's NOT okay/fine"
Cheers.
Well, there was once this girl, several years older, who told me she wants nothing out of our relationship other than being friends.
She knew I had feelings for her, but always gave me hints that we can't get beyond friendship. One day I upset her, she says "bye" and goes away.
I considered that she doesn't want to see me anymore, so I totally ignored her presence, as if she doesn't exist.
A while later she talked to me again, and a while later she said that she loves me
It showed her I'm not desperate, I have a life, I can get other women.
So whenver a girl tells you that she only wants you as a friend, keep those DJ tactics on fire, if you play your cards right, she'll fall anyway.
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When a girl says "It's okay/fine", it means "It's NOT okay/fine"
Cheers.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
got a woman3se question for you.
Her: "Yeah, guys here suck at flirting."
Me: "Yeah, guys suck in general and men are friggen awesome."
Her: "Yeah, you need to teach men how to flirt. You could call it flirting 101."
Me: "thanks..."
I wasn't really expecting it, but I got that from both of the girls at the table. I knew both of them for a long while. I would always flirt with them all the time.
comic_relief
Her: "Yeah, guys here suck at flirting."
Me: "Yeah, guys suck in general and men are friggen awesome."
Her: "Yeah, you need to teach men how to flirt. You could call it flirting 101."
Me: "thanks..."
I wasn't really expecting it, but I got that from both of the girls at the table. I knew both of them for a long while. I would always flirt with them all the time.
comic_relief