"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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They don't HAVE to go through this, they CHOOSE to go through this because they accept all these red flags in the beginning to get free pvssy and then are stuck with them late when they have kids with her.

Guys make poor choices with women the VAST majority of the time(>90%) and then act like it's someone else's fault.

And it's like, No you dumb fvck it's YOUR fault because you ignored countless red flags up until that point and decided she was good to try and lock down.

Stop blaming other people for your lack of good decision making. Period.
 

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Warning - this is a Youtube Shart with bad camera work. It's nauseating with the sound off, it's nauseating before you get to the angry female at the end.
 

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I learned a new word today. Viterperative. It means bitter and angry.

I also learned the word "harridan" from @MatureDJ

I believe it's the 2nd time he's used it. It's a fun word, almost like a portmanteau of "viper" and "uncooperative".
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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They don't HAVE to go through this, they CHOOSE to go through this because they accept all these red flags in the beginning to get free pvssy and then are stuck with them late when they have kids with her.

Guys make poor choices with women the VAST majority of the time(>90%) and then act like it's someone else's fault.

And it's like, No you dumb fvck it's YOUR fault because you ignored countless red flags up until that point and decided she was good to try and lock down.

Stop blaming other people for your lack of good decision making. Period.
These guys should take steroids so they can become properly aggressive.
 

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Play trashy games, win trashy prizes.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Because it never began. Only chance is to dumb it down and #AllWomen. It's my patented system for STEMcels, BigWordCels, and #TooIntellectualForWomen BrainCels.
BWC is big white c0ck.

But if you have a sapiophile chick you don't have to dumb down.
 

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They don't HAVE to go through this, they CHOOSE to go through this because they accept all these red flags in the beginning to get free pvssy and then are stuck with them late when they have kids with her.

Guys make poor choices with women the VAST majority of the time(>90%) and then act like it's someone else's fault.

And it's like, No you dumb fvck it's YOUR fault because you ignored countless red flags up until that point and decided she was good to try and lock down.

Stop blaming other people for your lack of good decision making. Period.
It doesn't matter. These damaged chicks will get you anyway. I did see the red flags shooting out of confetti cannons everywhere. She was soo angry and jealous by my rejection, plus watching me spin plates, she is shaming my name every chance she gets. Nevermind that I never even touched this ***** who threw herself at me for years and F***s anyone she pleases.
 

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BWC is big white c0ck.

But if you have a sapiophile chick you don't have to dumb down.
The problem with sapiosexual chicks is that they typically are quite plain. I think that these chicks use this self-description as way to mask the fact that they don't attract any attractive men - it's a lot like TFLers (Incels) claiming that they are MGTOW. :rolleyes:
 

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They don't HAVE to go through this, they CHOOSE to go through this because they accept all these red flags in the beginning to get free pvssy and then are stuck with them late when they have kids with her.

Guys make poor choices with women the VAST majority of the time(>90%) and then act like it's someone else's fault.

And it's like, No you dumb fvck it's YOUR fault because you ignored countless red flags up until that point and decided she was good to try and lock down.

Stop blaming other people for your lack of good decision making. Period.
Easy pus.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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