"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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They don't HAVE to go through this, they CHOOSE to go through this because they accept all these red flags in the beginning to get free pvssy and then are stuck with them late when they have kids with her.

Guys make poor choices with women the VAST majority of the time(>90%) and then act like it's someone else's fault.

And it's like, No you dumb fvck it's YOUR fault because you ignored countless red flags up until that point and decided she was good to try and lock down.

Stop blaming other people for your lack of good decision making. Period.
 

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Warning - this is a Youtube Shart with bad camera work. It's nauseating with the sound off, it's nauseating before you get to the angry female at the end.
 

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I learned a new word today. Viterperative. It means bitter and angry.

I also learned the word "harridan" from @MatureDJ

I believe it's the 2nd time he's used it. It's a fun word, almost like a portmanteau of "viper" and "uncooperative".
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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BillyPilgrim

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They don't HAVE to go through this, they CHOOSE to go through this because they accept all these red flags in the beginning to get free pvssy and then are stuck with them late when they have kids with her.

Guys make poor choices with women the VAST majority of the time(>90%) and then act like it's someone else's fault.

And it's like, No you dumb fvck it's YOUR fault because you ignored countless red flags up until that point and decided she was good to try and lock down.

Stop blaming other people for your lack of good decision making. Period.
These guys should take steroids so they can become properly aggressive.
 

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Play trashy games, win trashy prizes.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BillyPilgrim

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Because it never began. Only chance is to dumb it down and #AllWomen. It's my patented system for STEMcels, BigWordCels, and #TooIntellectualForWomen BrainCels.
BWC is big white c0ck.

But if you have a sapiophile chick you don't have to dumb down.
 

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They don't HAVE to go through this, they CHOOSE to go through this because they accept all these red flags in the beginning to get free pvssy and then are stuck with them late when they have kids with her.

Guys make poor choices with women the VAST majority of the time(>90%) and then act like it's someone else's fault.

And it's like, No you dumb fvck it's YOUR fault because you ignored countless red flags up until that point and decided she was good to try and lock down.

Stop blaming other people for your lack of good decision making. Period.
It doesn't matter. These damaged chicks will get you anyway. I did see the red flags shooting out of confetti cannons everywhere. She was soo angry and jealous by my rejection, plus watching me spin plates, she is shaming my name every chance she gets. Nevermind that I never even touched this ***** who threw herself at me for years and F***s anyone she pleases.
 

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BWC is big white c0ck.

But if you have a sapiophile chick you don't have to dumb down.
The problem with sapiosexual chicks is that they typically are quite plain. I think that these chicks use this self-description as way to mask the fact that they don't attract any attractive men - it's a lot like TFLers (Incels) claiming that they are MGTOW. :rolleyes:
 

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They don't HAVE to go through this, they CHOOSE to go through this because they accept all these red flags in the beginning to get free pvssy and then are stuck with them late when they have kids with her.

Guys make poor choices with women the VAST majority of the time(>90%) and then act like it's someone else's fault.

And it's like, No you dumb fvck it's YOUR fault because you ignored countless red flags up until that point and decided she was good to try and lock down.

Stop blaming other people for your lack of good decision making. Period.
Easy pus.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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