lost_blackbird
Master Don Juan
She kinda reminds me of my STBX wife's younger half-sister.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Gotta call you out, Hank.@lost_blackbird
This girl you call an HB9 has a job bringing pallets to a conveyor belt?
What's your scale like brah?
TO be fair.......@lost_blackbird
This girl you call an HB9 has a job bringing pallets to a conveyor belt?
What's your scale like brah?
I have a friend who is a Pilates teacher, and rock climber. Great body but a face like about a 6. She was approached by an older man while at a stoplight and reacted in absolute DISGUST! So you do have women out there who age is a serious no go issue, regardless of how many other things you have going for you.You don't need any signs. You see a hot girl of legal age and you approach her and talk to her and ask her out. It's simple and it completely eliminates any wondering or guess-work. You waste zero brain cycles trying to calculate whether or not she is interested. You simply ask her and find out. It's really as simple as that.
Yeah, it can happen, but the mindset is that she has the problem, not the guy, so her disgust (which is really just the manifestation of her entitlement, narcissism, and arrogance) is 100% on her and has nothing to do with him. When a fat ugly older woman approaches me and flirts with me, I'm always polite. No reason not to be! So if I were ever to get a reaction out of a younger woman like that during my approach, that's how I would process it mentally, and the fear of it happening doesn't stop me from approaching women of any legal age. Otherwise I wouldn't be banging so many 23-24yo hot women. I'll admit I look late 20's to early 30's which helps me a lot, but I don't think a guy who looks his age, but dresses dapper and is really fit would have too much of a harder time than me.I have a friend who is a Pilates teacher, and rock climber. Great body but a face like about a 6. She was approached by an older man while at a stoplight and reacted in absolute DISGUST! So you do have women out there who age is a serious no go issue, regardless of how many other things you have going for you.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
At the end it still depends........ does the guy look like an "old(er) man"?I have a friend who is a Pilates teacher, and rock climber. Great body but a face like about a 6. She was approached by an older man while at a stoplight and reacted in absolute DISGUST! So you do have women out there who age is a serious no go issue, regardless of how many other things you have going for you.
No its not and what is a "true 9" for whom?I was just saying that I didn't think a true 9 would be working in a warehouse at a conveyor belt.
It's a fair assumption.
This is absolutely bang on here.Some of the hottest women iv ever seen have being doing what we might consider boring,menial,rubbish jobs. The hotties,they cant all (or dont want to) be pole dancers,strippers or whatever it is hot ladies "should" doBut I can tell you that here, you meet absolute stunners doing crap jobs that they hate all the time. Beauty just doesn't seem to cut much ice when it comes to employment like i'm guessing it does in the US? (or maybe it's something else)
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Tesco was always an eye-opening shopping experience talking to the women that worked there. It's true.This is absolutely bang on here.Some of the hottest women iv ever seen have being doing what we might consider boring,menial,rubbish jobs. The hotties,they cant all (or dont want to) be pole dancers,strippers or whatever it is hot ladies "should" do
Well my mate married a HB9 he met in Tesco....You could say he got a bag for life I suppose!Tesco was always an eye-opening shopping experience talking to the women that worked there. It's true.
one of the girls I like near me is working as like a cleaner/marshal at a paintpall place lolThis is absolutely bang on here.Some of the hottest women iv ever seen have being doing what we might consider boring,menial,rubbish jobs. The hotties,they cant all (or dont want to) be pole dancers,strippers or whatever it is hot ladies "should" do

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.