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Bingo-Player

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@Hank Moody Yes that's me in my avatar. I don't know what a Boondock Saint is but thanks anyway?

"Where's there's muck, there's brass." is a saying we have in the UK which translated from Northern
monkey-speak means you can always find something valuable amongst detritus, i.e Most diamonds
are found in the dirt. I think it also applies to workplace tottie. I don't doubt that she has many male
followers and simps who would let her walk all over them. Maybe she hasn't been with an older guy
before and considers me enough of a specimen to give that a whirl with. I have only ever complimented
her on her hair, she's always doing something different with it, all compliments accepted gracefully with a smile.
She wasn't born with nice hair, that's a comment on her style more than her god given looks. She decides
what to do with her hair each day so I'm complimenting her, not mother nature.

As I said, I heard she's a rock chick from one of the other lads last night who works with her on the docks,
I have had that alternative -metal look most of my life, tattoos (11 currently with more coming later this
year) piercings (I had 17 piercings at one point in my life, I'm down to just 3 now both earlobes and my
d1ck). I also play guitar (30years), drums (12 years), can sing like an angel or a demon if necessary, I
believe my autism to be behind my musicality as well as my love of language. My wife used to say of
me "give him a new instrument and in five minutes flat he'll be getting a tune out of it". Maybe grizzled,
slightly greying rockers are her thing? It takes all sorts. The one pic of a guy from 2017 he's a bit clean cut
looking and ordinary but it looks like he took her on some great holidays. I'm very well travelled and have
been to some of the places she has so there's a love of travel and other cultures in common too. All good
conversation starters. If I do make a comment to her about what I've seen on her Insta I'll talk to about some
of the places she's been, not how hot she looks in a bikini. That will set me apart from 90% of her followers.

I predict she'd lose her mind if she knew about my awesome fire spitting motorbike too. Although when/if she
jumps onto my Instagram she'll see evidence of all of these things. Currently my hair is pretty long as well, I
am growing it out again, mainly because I still can, It will be about the 6th time in my life I've had very long hair,
it was down to my waist almost when I got married which was the last time it was long, about 9 years ago.
It's not quite long enough to tie back just yet, by the end of the year it will be. I've taken to wearing an Alice
band to keep it out of my face when it's too hot for my now trademark flat cap. It's either that or some f'd
up mullet looking thing at the moment, a stage all long haired guys have to endure. Still it takes balls to wear
an Alice band confidently, the only guys who can usually get away with without ridicule are premiership footballers.

Last night was gonna be a hot one after a sunny day so for the first time ever I wore shorts and a tank top to
work plus said Alice band. My manager didn't even recognise me as I'm usually in jeans and t shirt plus my cap.
I look pretty good in a vest, and I was working up quite a sweat last night on the belt, maybe she was getting
a pheromone hit from me? Maybe she liked the tats a lot more of which were visible? Who knows it may have
even been my hair she liked. All I know is she pulls her mask down to speak to me (against Amazons rules) but
of course then I can see her whole face (although those eyes are quite enough for me by themselves) and last night
after the first pallet she brought up to me she then fixed her hair to the way I said it looked great a few nights
previously. I'm in tonight so I'll casually mention I followed her Insta (we have friends in common on there from
Amazon so that's excusable, I'll say Insta recommended her to me from my contacts list.) and see where it goes.

Now for a couple of pics... What say you gents?
Not a 9 for me 7.5 /8 maybe but then i guess attraction is entirely subjective

did she send you these thirst pics or are they on insta ?
 

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No, they are on Insta among her holiday snaps. Yeah I guess attraction is subjective.
She's pretty tall and leggy which you'd not be able to tell from pics and has perfect straight
white teeth when she smiles which can add a couple of SMV points by themselves.
I only consider myself a 5 at best so that's still quite a mark up for me.
 

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ok just be careful she does look like she enjoys attention but they all do at that age

with regards to you declaring yourself a 5 i don't think that's fair you have plenty of bad ass about you ( no homo ) chicks love bad boys doesn't matter what they look like

women enjoy a "bit of rough" far more than they would ever be willing to let on infact i believe its a fetish for a lot of women and I've gone to some lengths in the last few years to switch from a pretty boy look to a more rough and ready look

only just finished with the Mrs but looking forward to see how I get on
 

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:up: Thank you for the compliment. I don't get many.
She kinda reminds me of my STBX wife's younger half-sister.
 

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@lost_blackbird

This girl you call an HB9 has a job bringing pallets to a conveyor belt?

What's your scale like brah?
Gotta call you out, Hank.
24 hours earlier, you were calling some post-person out for being unproductive/negative (and he was and I agree) . Judging by your above response, it looks like he may have rubbed off of you.
 

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Hank Moody dogging someone because they are working. Real classy, thanks hank, I feel like an idiot for
Unblocking you to see what you said. But in my defense it solidified my reasoning.

Lost Blackbird. Play your cards well..
 

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@lost_blackbird

This girl you call an HB9 has a job bringing pallets to a conveyor belt?

What's your scale like brah?
TO be fair.......

I know a Maybelline model who was a welder coming out of high school.
I also know a Hooters calendar girl who now trims weed for a living
I know a former Miss America contestant who is a big game hunting guide.

Not high percentage but "diamonds in the dirt " is a thing...


Now in regards to
You don't need any signs. You see a hot girl of legal age and you approach her and talk to her and ask her out. It's simple and it completely eliminates any wondering or guess-work. You waste zero brain cycles trying to calculate whether or not she is interested. You simply ask her and find out. It's really as simple as that.
I have a friend who is a Pilates teacher, and rock climber. Great body but a face like about a 6. She was approached by an older man while at a stoplight and reacted in absolute DISGUST! So you do have women out there who age is a serious no go issue, regardless of how many other things you have going for you.

kinda like me and women with chest Tattoos. Wouldn't want to be seen with one in public...Might not be able to get it up is in private..
 

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I have a friend who is a Pilates teacher, and rock climber. Great body but a face like about a 6. She was approached by an older man while at a stoplight and reacted in absolute DISGUST! So you do have women out there who age is a serious no go issue, regardless of how many other things you have going for you.
Yeah, it can happen, but the mindset is that she has the problem, not the guy, so her disgust (which is really just the manifestation of her entitlement, narcissism, and arrogance) is 100% on her and has nothing to do with him. When a fat ugly older woman approaches me and flirts with me, I'm always polite. No reason not to be! So if I were ever to get a reaction out of a younger woman like that during my approach, that's how I would process it mentally, and the fear of it happening doesn't stop me from approaching women of any legal age. Otherwise I wouldn't be banging so many 23-24yo hot women. I'll admit I look late 20's to early 30's which helps me a lot, but I don't think a guy who looks his age, but dresses dapper and is really fit would have too much of a harder time than me.

I also believe men should hold women like that accountable. Remain calm, but say, "Wow, that's some attitude you have there. I'd never react to a friendly stranger with such arrogance. Good luck with all that." This assumes you were being genuinely nice and charming in your interaction with her and not cheesy or high-pressure.
 
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I have a friend who is a Pilates teacher, and rock climber. Great body but a face like about a 6. She was approached by an older man while at a stoplight and reacted in absolute DISGUST! So you do have women out there who age is a serious no go issue, regardless of how many other things you have going for you.
At the end it still depends........ does the guy look like an "old(er) man"?

From what i have seen the problem young women have is not the age but the look of some guys.

Style, haircut, clothing, body....... if you want to get a 20 year younger girl, you better have the basics covered, looking badass and not like grandpa Walton.
 

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Gotta call you out, Hank.
24 hours earlier, you were calling some post-person out for being unproductive/negative (and he was and I agree) . Judging by your above response, it looks like he may have rubbed off of you.
I was just saying that I didn't think a true 9 would be working in a warehouse at a conveyor belt.

It's a fair assumption.
 

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The only girls I found to be into older men were girls that either had a decent present father or an avoidant neglecting one.

Those in between hardly wanted older men, but then again what kind of age difference are we talking about?
 

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But I can tell you that here, you meet absolute stunners doing crap jobs that they hate all the time. Beauty just doesn't seem to cut much ice when it comes to employment like i'm guessing it does in the US? (or maybe it's something else)
This is absolutely bang on here.Some of the hottest women iv ever seen have being doing what we might consider boring,menial,rubbish jobs. The hotties,they cant all (or dont want to) be pole dancers,strippers or whatever it is hot ladies "should" do
 

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This is absolutely bang on here.Some of the hottest women iv ever seen have being doing what we might consider boring,menial,rubbish jobs. The hotties,they cant all (or dont want to) be pole dancers,strippers or whatever it is hot ladies "should" do
Tesco was always an eye-opening shopping experience talking to the women that worked there. It's true.
 

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This is absolutely bang on here.Some of the hottest women iv ever seen have being doing what we might consider boring,menial,rubbish jobs. The hotties,they cant all (or dont want to) be pole dancers,strippers or whatever it is hot ladies "should" do
one of the girls I like near me is working as like a cleaner/marshal at a paintpall place lol

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