lost_blackbird
Master Don Juan
She kinda reminds me of my STBX wife's younger half-sister.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Gotta call you out, Hank.@lost_blackbird
This girl you call an HB9 has a job bringing pallets to a conveyor belt?
What's your scale like brah?
TO be fair.......@lost_blackbird
This girl you call an HB9 has a job bringing pallets to a conveyor belt?
What's your scale like brah?
I have a friend who is a Pilates teacher, and rock climber. Great body but a face like about a 6. She was approached by an older man while at a stoplight and reacted in absolute DISGUST! So you do have women out there who age is a serious no go issue, regardless of how many other things you have going for you.You don't need any signs. You see a hot girl of legal age and you approach her and talk to her and ask her out. It's simple and it completely eliminates any wondering or guess-work. You waste zero brain cycles trying to calculate whether or not she is interested. You simply ask her and find out. It's really as simple as that.
Yeah, it can happen, but the mindset is that she has the problem, not the guy, so her disgust (which is really just the manifestation of her entitlement, narcissism, and arrogance) is 100% on her and has nothing to do with him. When a fat ugly older woman approaches me and flirts with me, I'm always polite. No reason not to be! So if I were ever to get a reaction out of a younger woman like that during my approach, that's how I would process it mentally, and the fear of it happening doesn't stop me from approaching women of any legal age. Otherwise I wouldn't be banging so many 23-24yo hot women. I'll admit I look late 20's to early 30's which helps me a lot, but I don't think a guy who looks his age, but dresses dapper and is really fit would have too much of a harder time than me.I have a friend who is a Pilates teacher, and rock climber. Great body but a face like about a 6. She was approached by an older man while at a stoplight and reacted in absolute DISGUST! So you do have women out there who age is a serious no go issue, regardless of how many other things you have going for you.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
At the end it still depends........ does the guy look like an "old(er) man"?I have a friend who is a Pilates teacher, and rock climber. Great body but a face like about a 6. She was approached by an older man while at a stoplight and reacted in absolute DISGUST! So you do have women out there who age is a serious no go issue, regardless of how many other things you have going for you.
No its not and what is a "true 9" for whom?I was just saying that I didn't think a true 9 would be working in a warehouse at a conveyor belt.
It's a fair assumption.
This is absolutely bang on here.Some of the hottest women iv ever seen have being doing what we might consider boring,menial,rubbish jobs. The hotties,they cant all (or dont want to) be pole dancers,strippers or whatever it is hot ladies "should" doBut I can tell you that here, you meet absolute stunners doing crap jobs that they hate all the time. Beauty just doesn't seem to cut much ice when it comes to employment like i'm guessing it does in the US? (or maybe it's something else)
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Tesco was always an eye-opening shopping experience talking to the women that worked there. It's true.This is absolutely bang on here.Some of the hottest women iv ever seen have being doing what we might consider boring,menial,rubbish jobs. The hotties,they cant all (or dont want to) be pole dancers,strippers or whatever it is hot ladies "should" do
Well my mate married a HB9 he met in Tesco....You could say he got a bag for life I suppose!Tesco was always an eye-opening shopping experience talking to the women that worked there. It's true.
one of the girls I like near me is working as like a cleaner/marshal at a paintpall place lolThis is absolutely bang on here.Some of the hottest women iv ever seen have being doing what we might consider boring,menial,rubbish jobs. The hotties,they cant all (or dont want to) be pole dancers,strippers or whatever it is hot ladies "should" do

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.