"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Virtual Adultery

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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STR8UP said:
Of course this woman is gonna do whatever she wants! His "unconditional love" gives her a license!

It just goes to show how delusional people can be.
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Yep - A License to do whatever one wants to do with no consequences is exactly what "unconditional love " grants . The belief we should continue to "love" ,honor and respect the other person inspite of their destructive deeds is just plain dumb, This is some leftover crock from the "Worst of Counselling in the "80s" and I am amazed and appalled that it is still being preached as a noble ideal in therapy and "spirituality " ( whatever that means)

Young children are entitled to uncondtional love from their parents - mixed with a compassionate dose of discipline and rule setting.
Adult are not entitled to anything such thing.
 
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