Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Virtual Adultery

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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STR8UP said:
Of course this woman is gonna do whatever she wants! His "unconditional love" gives her a license!

It just goes to show how delusional people can be.
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Yep - A License to do whatever one wants to do with no consequences is exactly what "unconditional love " grants . The belief we should continue to "love" ,honor and respect the other person inspite of their destructive deeds is just plain dumb, This is some leftover crock from the "Worst of Counselling in the "80s" and I am amazed and appalled that it is still being preached as a noble ideal in therapy and "spirituality " ( whatever that means)

Young children are entitled to uncondtional love from their parents - mixed with a compassionate dose of discipline and rule setting.
Adult are not entitled to anything such thing.
 
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