"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Virtual Adultery

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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STR8UP said:
Of course this woman is gonna do whatever she wants! His "unconditional love" gives her a license!

It just goes to show how delusional people can be.
Yep - A License to do whatever one wants to do with no consequences is exactly what "unconditional love " grants . The belief we should continue to "love" ,honor and respect the other person inspite of their destructive deeds is just plain dumb, This is some leftover crock from the "Worst of Counselling in the "80s" and I am amazed and appalled that it is still being preached as a noble ideal in therapy and "spirituality " ( whatever that means)

Young children are entitled to uncondtional love from their parents - mixed with a compassionate dose of discipline and rule setting.
Adult are not entitled to anything such thing.
 
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