"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Virgin chick didn't put out for 2.5-year boyfriend, sexes colleague within week of him moving on
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Tilex
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I remember going on several dates with different girls when I was in HS and they would flash their V-cards around so I wouldn't get any action.
This can only last for so long because let's face it, there's nothing exciting about dating chicks in high school if they aren't letting you get past 2nd base.
At that age they don't have many hobbies or experiences to be interesting enough.
They just become a real bore to be around!
MatureDJ
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Well, hitting the home run with a high-school chick could mean going to the "dugout" for a while ...
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devilkingx2
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However, just because you didn't burn down my house intentionally doesn't mean I'm just gonna shrug it off. Especially if you look really guilty and there's no way to prove it for sure.
The main thing I hope she has is the self awareness to realize that if guys who take advantage of her get laid but guys who treat her right get baggage, she's in for a world of pain and suffering...
As for the guy, I hope he learns that commitment should be avoided for as long as possible and required effort should be minimal in a relationship unless the reward exceeds the effort by a lot. No woman is worth 2.5 years of sexless monogamy unless she's a millionaire whose association with you gets you into hollywood parties or something. I hope he also learns that even if she doesn't know it and isn't doing it on purpose, whatever you don't get from her is reserved for someone else.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
devilkingx2
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Most women are really boring in general. I wanna say most people but I have a way easier time finding a dude with something to talk about than a girl.
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She had no respect for her former boyfriend and he was devastated. Just completely devastated.
Women open their legs for men they want to fvck, always. Never wait for it, it will only serve to rule you in the end.
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damn handsome bartenders!!!
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AJ84
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Yes that is a good comparison.
And in both cases, who is really at fault?
People do what we let them do.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
mrgoodstuff
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The lesson was 3 date rule. Get your puzzy up front fill in the rest of the details later.
And don’t buy any bull crap line they try to throw at you as to why they won’t sleep with you yet. “I just want to take things slow”, “every time I sleep with a guy too soon I get hurt”, “I like you a lot and want to see where this goes and don’t want this to be all about sex”. Heard em all, they all mean the same thing and the end result is the same, she just ain’t into you that much so don’t prolong it.
AJ84
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She for sure is, just like the guy who wastes a woman’s best years stringing her along.
There are people in the dating pool who suck. They suck time, emotion, and energy from people who don’t screen well and ignore red flags. I would guess that for every one decent man or woman in the dating pool, there are three men or women who are selfish suckers lol, the self absorbed player and the self absorbed entitled princess.
In this case, and the case you posted to compare it to, both people are at fault in each situation but one out of each couple had the option to end it and didn’t.
We have a choice in those scenarios, and what choice we make sometimes reflects our own sense of self worth. People with a high sense of self worth don’t usually allow other people to waste their time like that.
MatureDJ
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This is pretty much it.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
mrgoodstuff
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Some in the situation have married into a sexless marriage.
That’s when you get that **** annulled since you never consummated the marriage and then you keep all your stuff.lol
mrgoodstuff
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What a hassle
mrgoodstuff
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Serve him right for breaking the 3 date rule
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He would have got to the bottom of her. She has the right to refuse before marriage. Once married her excuse is gone. Here he lost since he will never have sex with her. If he got married sooner abd called her bluff this would solve it.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.