"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vCEQ1XXZTyI&mode=related&search=
zerocelcius
Master Don Juan
Lust said:Not that this is anything helpful but... it's funny as hell!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vCEQ1XXZTyI&mode=related&search=
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
zerocelcius
Master Don Juan
Agent Zero said:geez, zero, your attitude is so smug...why does it have to be direct vs. indirect...why can't both work? I am an advocate of both direct game and natural indirect game, I just don't like canned indirect.
SMUG... I like that!
It isn't direct vs. indirect for me it is Indirect.. only.
I see absolutly no direct besides the guy in the mall... and that was so freaking weak!!!
guy: hi I seen you...
girl: ok....
guy: um...so can I have your #
girl: ok....
guy: *pulls phone* (i'm sure that isn't all he pulled that night)
girl: *gives #*
Ta da!...... WoW!
what the hell is this guy going to talk about when he calls?
If it is actually her # and not wood.
Than if and a big IF here, what kind of convo will they have when he sets something up?
It just sucks is all I was being so smug about..
But you don't have to take my word on it... *cut*
X-Man
Don Juan
That's funny as all hell. I've already put it on my myspace!Lust said:Not that this is anything helpful but... it's funny as hell!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vCEQ1XXZTyI&mode=related&search=
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
zerocelcius
Master Don Juan
Here is one and it's proof that direct just doesn't work...zerocelcius said:Still no DA Video.???
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zerocelcius
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Yes. I am bashing one video and one video only.DonJoseCantosie said:Ur basing one video on negative results with direct? C'mon now.
It sucked.
I am not bashing one method because of this video. However; I would like to see some good DA videos.