Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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ketostix

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How could 2 opposing theories both work? That would invalidate both of them.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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greenlake

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Agent Zero....are you talking to yourself? :nono:

and to kerostix, they both works but direct just works better!!! MUAHAHAHhahah.:moon:
 

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Evidence that direct works better or at all? If two totally different things have the same outcome then there's no casation. Something else would be the reason they worked.
 

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evidence? There are more indirect guys posting on sosuave than direct guys. Hmmm....you get the idea.
 

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Just because more guys are ineffectively doing something doesn't mean the method is ineffective. There's plenty of post of guys doing indirect and getting results. Where are the direct method results?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Agent Zero said:
geez, zero, your attitude is so smug...why does it have to be direct vs. indirect...why can't both work? I am an advocate of both direct game and natural indirect game, I just don't like canned indirect.

SMUG... I like that!

It isn't direct vs. indirect for me it is Indirect.. only.

I see absolutly no direct besides the guy in the mall... and that was so freaking weak!!!

guy: hi I seen you...
girl: ok....
guy: um...so can I have your #
girl: ok....
guy: *pulls phone* (i'm sure that isn't all he pulled that night)
girl: *gives #*

Ta da!...... WoW!

what the hell is this guy going to talk about when he calls?
If it is actually her # and not wood.
Than if and a big IF here, what kind of convo will they have when he sets something up?

It just sucks is all I was being so smug about..

But you don't have to take my word on it... *cut*
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Still no DA Video.???
 

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Ur basing one video on negative results with direct? C'mon now.
 

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DonJoseCantosie said:
Ur basing one video on negative results with direct? C'mon now.
Yes. I am bashing one video and one video only.

It sucked.

I am not bashing one method because of this video. However; I would like to see some good DA videos.
 
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