"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How could 2 opposing theories both work? That would invalidate both of them.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Agent Zero....are you talking to yourself? :nono:

and to kerostix, they both works but direct just works better!!! MUAHAHAHhahah.:moon:
 

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Evidence that direct works better or at all? If two totally different things have the same outcome then there's no casation. Something else would be the reason they worked.
 

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evidence? There are more indirect guys posting on sosuave than direct guys. Hmmm....you get the idea.
 

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Just because more guys are ineffectively doing something doesn't mean the method is ineffective. There's plenty of post of guys doing indirect and getting results. Where are the direct method results?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Agent Zero said:
geez, zero, your attitude is so smug...why does it have to be direct vs. indirect...why can't both work? I am an advocate of both direct game and natural indirect game, I just don't like canned indirect.

SMUG... I like that!

It isn't direct vs. indirect for me it is Indirect.. only.

I see absolutly no direct besides the guy in the mall... and that was so freaking weak!!!

guy: hi I seen you...
girl: ok....
guy: um...so can I have your #
girl: ok....
guy: *pulls phone* (i'm sure that isn't all he pulled that night)
girl: *gives #*

Ta da!...... WoW!

what the hell is this guy going to talk about when he calls?
If it is actually her # and not wood.
Than if and a big IF here, what kind of convo will they have when he sets something up?

It just sucks is all I was being so smug about..

But you don't have to take my word on it... *cut*
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Still no DA Video.???
 

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Ur basing one video on negative results with direct? C'mon now.
 

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DonJoseCantosie said:
Ur basing one video on negative results with direct? C'mon now.
Yes. I am bashing one video and one video only.

It sucked.

I am not bashing one method because of this video. However; I would like to see some good DA videos.
 
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