"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vCEQ1XXZTyI&mode=related&search=
zerocelcius
Master Don Juan
Lust said:Not that this is anything helpful but... it's funny as hell!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vCEQ1XXZTyI&mode=related&search=
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
zerocelcius
Master Don Juan
Agent Zero said:geez, zero, your attitude is so smug...why does it have to be direct vs. indirect...why can't both work? I am an advocate of both direct game and natural indirect game, I just don't like canned indirect.
SMUG... I like that!
It isn't direct vs. indirect for me it is Indirect.. only.
I see absolutly no direct besides the guy in the mall... and that was so freaking weak!!!
guy: hi I seen you...
girl: ok....
guy: um...so can I have your #
girl: ok....
guy: *pulls phone* (i'm sure that isn't all he pulled that night)
girl: *gives #*
Ta da!...... WoW!
what the hell is this guy going to talk about when he calls?
If it is actually her # and not wood.
Than if and a big IF here, what kind of convo will they have when he sets something up?
It just sucks is all I was being so smug about..
But you don't have to take my word on it... *cut*
X-Man
Don Juan
That's funny as all hell. I've already put it on my myspace!Lust said:Not that this is anything helpful but... it's funny as hell!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vCEQ1XXZTyI&mode=related&search=
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
zerocelcius
Master Don Juan
Here is one and it's proof that direct just doesn't work...zerocelcius said:Still no DA Video.???
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zerocelcius
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Yes. I am bashing one video and one video only.DonJoseCantosie said:Ur basing one video on negative results with direct? C'mon now.
It sucked.
I am not bashing one method because of this video. However; I would like to see some good DA videos.