I'm Charming
Don Juan
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Actually it's quite a bit better. :yes:KontrollerX said:So I had the system sent from Dell with the 512MB Radeon ATI HD 3870 card which is definitely not as good as yours Andy
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Actually it's quite a bit better. :yes:KontrollerX said:So I had the system sent from Dell with the 512MB Radeon ATI HD 3870 card which is definitely not as good as yours Andy
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Actually I think thats a good idea. I have an HP media computer with Vista Home Premium, no where near a gaming computer. I left everything the same, I added 4gb of RAM and my 8600gt. It runs games very well, with all those awesome parts on your computers inside, all you really need to do is upgrade the gfx card and your set with an awesome computer.KontrollerX said:Well I had to go cheap for the time being little buddy but the idea at the time I was buying it was that I'd spend the dough for the core essentials such as a highly upgradeable for gaming PC with an awesome CPU and a ton of RAM and I thought I'll just get a better videocard in a year or two when it'll be necessary again and I'll have more cash to spend.
So I had the system sent from Dell with the 512MB Radeon ATI HD 3870 card which is definitely not as good as yours Andy but should get me by just fine for a while and it runs Mass Effect about as good or better than the Xbox 360 so thats pretty impressive for it I think.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
To me the first Fable didn't suck it was just really short. I really hope Fable 2 is a great game because I loved the first one. Gears is just Gears. They are going to polish the single player/multiplayer and it will be a great game. I just hope the single player in Gears 2 is better than the first one.KontrollerX said:I've got Fable 2 and Gears 2 on pre-order even though I fear like the first one Fable 2 will suck.
I hope it doesn't though.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Umm, I never implied that the PC is for games only. Heck the reason that I even own a console and don't game on the PC is because my PC is simply not powerful enough to play games on, but it is obviously powerful enough to go online etc. Everything you said can basically be done on a 500Mhz PC. Of course you can't play new games on it. And that's the point of my post. If somebody wanted to play new current games, then they need it to be at least the high midrange and buy new parts about every 4 years. You completely misunderstood my argument.In Motion said:But then again I cant really make presentations, surf the internet, use Word, itunes etc on a frickin Xbox. Im not exactly rich (atm) so its not like I can even afford a "fun machine", which i probably wouldnt be able to use that often either. Also, you make it sound like the only use of a computer is gaming, which ofcourse is extremely wrong. I have never done a major update on my computer (its pretty new though). So yeah. A computer IS a better investment. Of course, if your rich or spoiled, enjoy your funbox, but it serves one purpose: FUN (Like other guy mentioned in reply to me). I can get the same amount of fun from my computer. Or living life outside a screen.
Btw: Spending a 100 bucks++ on a new game everytime you want one and expenses for TV and accessories for console isnt exactly cheap either.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
KontrollerX said:When everyone sane knows that most of Nintendo's decisions are horrible.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.