"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm Charming

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KontrollerX said:
So I had the system sent from Dell with the 512MB Radeon ATI HD 3870 card which is definitely not as good as yours Andy
Actually it's quite a bit better. :yes:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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KontrollerX said:
Well I had to go cheap for the time being little buddy but the idea at the time I was buying it was that I'd spend the dough for the core essentials such as a highly upgradeable for gaming PC with an awesome CPU and a ton of RAM and I thought I'll just get a better videocard in a year or two when it'll be necessary again and I'll have more cash to spend.

So I had the system sent from Dell with the 512MB Radeon ATI HD 3870 card which is definitely not as good as yours Andy but should get me by just fine for a while and it runs Mass Effect about as good or better than the Xbox 360 so thats pretty impressive for it I think.
Actually I think thats a good idea. I have an HP media computer with Vista Home Premium, no where near a gaming computer. I left everything the same, I added 4gb of RAM and my 8600gt. It runs games very well, with all those awesome parts on your computers inside, all you really need to do is upgrade the gfx card and your set with an awesome computer.
 

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I'm gonna kidnap you and we're gonna play a game of chess, HBK.
 

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i got a ps3 an i absolutely love metal gear solid 4. best game i have ever seen or played.

gta 4 is alright, motorstorm is pretty cool too.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Leipzig starts tomorrow if you guys are interested. Leipzig is a game convention in I think Germany. I know Sony is going to announce some new stuff. Microsoft is probably not gonna show anything new, but will most likely give out new info on Fable 2/ Gears 2/ and Banjo.
 

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I've got Fable 2 and Gears 2 on pre-order even though I fear like the first one Fable 2 will suck.

I hope it doesn't though.
 

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my PC:
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I've got Fable 2 and Gears 2 on pre-order even though I fear like the first one Fable 2 will suck.

I hope it doesn't though.
To me the first Fable didn't suck it was just really short. I really hope Fable 2 is a great game because I loved the first one. Gears is just Gears. They are going to polish the single player/multiplayer and it will be a great game. I just hope the single player in Gears 2 is better than the first one.
 

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SO I guess I'll be playing Warhammer online come september. If anyone wants to join me and a couple of my buddies your more than welcome. we have a vent server for chat and everything.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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i own a xbox 360 and for being 21 I probably play way to much. But its a great way to wind down after a day of work. Playing online against people is so much fun.

I mostly play Call of Duty 4, but also lots of Halo 3, GTA 4, Guitar Hero 2, and MLB 2k8
 

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But then again I cant really make presentations, surf the internet, use Word, itunes etc on a frickin Xbox. Im not exactly rich (atm) so its not like I can even afford a "fun machine", which i probably wouldnt be able to use that often either. Also, you make it sound like the only use of a computer is gaming, which ofcourse is extremely wrong. I have never done a major update on my computer (its pretty new though). So yeah. A computer IS a better investment. Of course, if your rich or spoiled, enjoy your funbox, but it serves one purpose: FUN (Like other guy mentioned in reply to me). I can get the same amount of fun from my computer. Or living life outside a screen.

Btw: Spending a 100 bucks++ on a new game everytime you want one and expenses for TV and accessories for console isnt exactly cheap either.
Umm, I never implied that the PC is for games only. Heck the reason that I even own a console and don't game on the PC is because my PC is simply not powerful enough to play games on, but it is obviously powerful enough to go online etc. Everything you said can basically be done on a 500Mhz PC. Of course you can't play new games on it. And that's the point of my post. If somebody wanted to play new current games, then they need it to be at least the high midrange and buy new parts about every 4 years. You completely misunderstood my argument.

"But then again I cant really make presentations, surf the internet, use Word, itunes etc on a frickin Xbox."

But you can on a PS3 if you install Linux. I would not be surprised if the next Xbox and or Playstation lets you install the next version of Windows on them. I think the gaming and PC industry would completely change if the next Xbox, the Xbox 720 lets you install the next Windows OS, Windows 7 on it.

As for me not playing PC games I take that back. The only PC game I've ever played is World of Warcraft. My only computer is a notebook and it's just powerful enough to be a bit above the recommended requirements. I haven't played WoW in a year but I'll be back when Litch King comes out and I'll probably last a few months before I get bored of it.

I'd like to try Age of Conan and Warhammer, but I will not buy a game without trying it out first.
 

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I've got it and have finished it Andy.

Its a fun game but pretty much more of the same as far as GTA goes.

Nothing really new or innovative.

Basically its a standard new game series update.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Cool man Ill probably get it pretty soon

Hey K-X have you ever heard of Frys Electronics? Im not sure if there is one where you live, I also dont know your budget but I was at Frys the other day and I saw a GeForce 9600gt 512mb PCI-E for 140 dollars with a 30 dollar rebate. Thats a bargain because I get my 8600 for 200 bucks, and a 9600 is a very nice card, just thought id let you know because its a pretty good deal IMO.
 

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Frys electronics is a great store. Everytime I go down to the states I visit one of those stores and check out any deals they got. Got meself a camcorder last time :up:

Will be going down to the states again tomorow. :)
 

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Heh heh make sure you never say that on a videogame board San Jose California.

The Nintendo fan lemmings run damage control like no tomorrow and prop up delusional beliefs about some of Nintendo's worst decisions ever being good.

When everyone sane knows that most of Nintendo's decisions are horrible.
 

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super smash and rock band. Pretty much it. However, I am waiting for starcraft 2!!
 

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When everyone sane knows that most of Nintendo's decisions are horrible.

I guess that's why the Wii is the highest-selling console of the three, huh?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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