"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Update: Life goal happened - my business is making me big money

TheGambino

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Brothers,

It's been a while since I posted something, I don't have the time anymore.
I want to tell you guys that I took over a business. I posted about this months ago and told you guys that this was my plan and it worked out.
I have to turnover 15.000 euros a week to pay my costs and 20.000 euros a week to generate a good director salary. I turnover double at the moment! 40.000 euros a week and make big, big money.

I went from a broke student who went to the gym daily, and did night game every weekend to a well paid business man in a couple of months.

Ofcourse I did the same job for a boss 3-4 years, I learned, watched, figured out what works for me and quit my job and started for my own.

Now I got 2 guys on payroll who work for me everyday in my showroom (I sell A quality Bathrooms for low prices).

The other side is I work my as$ off everyday from morning to evening and sometimes night but it will calm down when I get full control over everything. I am happy, this is what I desired, no boss to answer to, no upper hand to tell me what I have to do, but I lost a lot of my freedom too but it's worth it.

Now I have to make a structure of working out and working. I will have the Don Juan life I always wanted at the age of 27. Money to travel the world (not any time soon because my business needs me there everyday at the moment), money to dress well and buy nice things, good food and have a nice lifestyle.

Next to that I have to work more on my work out regime to get back in shape like I was this summer (all muscled up).

I went out yesterday and didn't hook much, not sure why but I got a new date this saturday with a new girl. Old girls text me sometimes but I don't have time for that.

Just a quick update. To be continued. When I have more time I will update you guys with new approaches and reports of going out.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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kzar_kzar

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Brothers,

It's been a while since I posted something, I don't have the time anymore.
I want to tell you guys that I took over a business. I posted about this months ago and told you guys that this was my plan and it worked out.
I have to turnover 15.000 euros a week to pay my costs and 20.000 euros a week to generate a good director salary. I turnover double at the moment! 40.000 euros a week and make big, big money.

I went from a broke student who went to the gym daily, and did night game every weekend to a well paid business man in a couple of months.

Ofcourse I did the same job for a boss 3-4 years, I learned, watched, figured out what works for me and quit my job and started for my own.

Now I got 2 guys on payroll who work for me everyday in my showroom (I sell A quality Bathrooms for low prices).

The other side is I work my as$ off everyday from morning to evening and sometimes night but it will calm down when I get full control over everything. I am happy, this is what I desired, no boss to answer to, no upper hand to tell me what I have to do, but I lost a lot of my freedom too but it's worth it.

Now I have to make a structure of working out and working. I will have the Don Juan life I always wanted at the age of 27. Money to travel the world (not any time soon because my business needs me there everyday at the moment), money to dress well and buy nice things, good food and have a nice lifestyle.

Next to that I have to work more on my work out regime to get back in shape like I was this summer (all muscled up).

I went out yesterday and didn't hook much, not sure why but I got a new date this saturday with a new girl. Old girls text me sometimes but I don't have time for that.

Just a quick update. To be continued. When I have more time I will update you guys with new approaches and reports of going out.
Good to know gambino, had read some of your postings earlier.. I'm same as your age but just this year I started to get my sh!t together and at the same time ran into sosuave. Wish you best!
 

MatureDJ

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Great, now you can pay a lot of taxes to support the spawn of other men!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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marmel75

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Great job! Always remember to go the extra mile for your customers...when you treat them well they can be your best source of new business from referrals.
 

ChristianPUA

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Congratulations!
 

zekko

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Good for you Gambino, keep up the good work!
 
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