"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Update: Life goal happened - my business is making me big money

TheGambino

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Brothers,

It's been a while since I posted something, I don't have the time anymore.
I want to tell you guys that I took over a business. I posted about this months ago and told you guys that this was my plan and it worked out.
I have to turnover 15.000 euros a week to pay my costs and 20.000 euros a week to generate a good director salary. I turnover double at the moment! 40.000 euros a week and make big, big money.

I went from a broke student who went to the gym daily, and did night game every weekend to a well paid business man in a couple of months.

Ofcourse I did the same job for a boss 3-4 years, I learned, watched, figured out what works for me and quit my job and started for my own.

Now I got 2 guys on payroll who work for me everyday in my showroom (I sell A quality Bathrooms for low prices).

The other side is I work my as$ off everyday from morning to evening and sometimes night but it will calm down when I get full control over everything. I am happy, this is what I desired, no boss to answer to, no upper hand to tell me what I have to do, but I lost a lot of my freedom too but it's worth it.

Now I have to make a structure of working out and working. I will have the Don Juan life I always wanted at the age of 27. Money to travel the world (not any time soon because my business needs me there everyday at the moment), money to dress well and buy nice things, good food and have a nice lifestyle.

Next to that I have to work more on my work out regime to get back in shape like I was this summer (all muscled up).

I went out yesterday and didn't hook much, not sure why but I got a new date this saturday with a new girl. Old girls text me sometimes but I don't have time for that.

Just a quick update. To be continued. When I have more time I will update you guys with new approaches and reports of going out.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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kzar_kzar

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Brothers,

It's been a while since I posted something, I don't have the time anymore.
I want to tell you guys that I took over a business. I posted about this months ago and told you guys that this was my plan and it worked out.
I have to turnover 15.000 euros a week to pay my costs and 20.000 euros a week to generate a good director salary. I turnover double at the moment! 40.000 euros a week and make big, big money.

I went from a broke student who went to the gym daily, and did night game every weekend to a well paid business man in a couple of months.

Ofcourse I did the same job for a boss 3-4 years, I learned, watched, figured out what works for me and quit my job and started for my own.

Now I got 2 guys on payroll who work for me everyday in my showroom (I sell A quality Bathrooms for low prices).

The other side is I work my as$ off everyday from morning to evening and sometimes night but it will calm down when I get full control over everything. I am happy, this is what I desired, no boss to answer to, no upper hand to tell me what I have to do, but I lost a lot of my freedom too but it's worth it.

Now I have to make a structure of working out and working. I will have the Don Juan life I always wanted at the age of 27. Money to travel the world (not any time soon because my business needs me there everyday at the moment), money to dress well and buy nice things, good food and have a nice lifestyle.

Next to that I have to work more on my work out regime to get back in shape like I was this summer (all muscled up).

I went out yesterday and didn't hook much, not sure why but I got a new date this saturday with a new girl. Old girls text me sometimes but I don't have time for that.

Just a quick update. To be continued. When I have more time I will update you guys with new approaches and reports of going out.
Good to know gambino, had read some of your postings earlier.. I'm same as your age but just this year I started to get my sh!t together and at the same time ran into sosuave. Wish you best!
 

MatureDJ

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Great, now you can pay a lot of taxes to support the spawn of other men!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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marmel75

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Great job! Always remember to go the extra mile for your customers...when you treat them well they can be your best source of new business from referrals.
 

ChristianPUA

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Congratulations!
 

zekko

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Good for you Gambino, keep up the good work!
 
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