RickTheToad
Moderator
Not nice boob-a-million.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Update - hanging out one-on-one tonight with woman from “woman’s morality and cheating” thread
- Thread starter bacchus
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
RickTheToad
Moderator
It's all good. No worries.
YourGreatestFear
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The only thing it would change is.. make women hide their relationship status even more than they already do. On the other hand women would be even more selective in choosing their mate so usual nice guys would have even less chances. Her husband probably wouldn't be able even to get her if she didn't have a chance to cheat on him. Some women just find suitable provider and marry him, while having sex with other men for the sake of pure enjoyment.
Also sorry bro, but random men you never met aren't your friends, from evolutionary point of view they are your competitors. You owe nothing to them and they owe nothing to you.