RickTheToad
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Not nice boob-a-million.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Update - hanging out one-on-one tonight with woman from “woman’s morality and cheating” thread
- Thread starter bacchus
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
RickTheToad
Moderator
It's all good. No worries.
YourGreatestFear
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The only thing it would change is.. make women hide their relationship status even more than they already do. On the other hand women would be even more selective in choosing their mate so usual nice guys would have even less chances. Her husband probably wouldn't be able even to get her if she didn't have a chance to cheat on him. Some women just find suitable provider and marry him, while having sex with other men for the sake of pure enjoyment.
Also sorry bro, but random men you never met aren't your friends, from evolutionary point of view they are your competitors. You owe nothing to them and they owe nothing to you.