zentraveller
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Up to date : The Uk.
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
octane_orphan
Don Juan
Chav-tastic!
Alpine
Master Don Juan
Octane,
They have Chavs in London too don't they?
Most major cities in UK have top fanny. It's more a question of sniffing it out and smelling it's snatch.
They have Chavs in London too don't they?
Most major cities in UK have top fanny. It's more a question of sniffing it out and smelling it's snatch.
zentraveller
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I read Leeds was voted UK's favorite city.
Is it a pleasant place to visit, and how are the women?
Is it a pleasant place to visit, and how are the women?
Alpine
Master Don Juan
Fit as a Butcher's dog.
Take that how you like.
Take that how you like.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
zentraveller
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Hmmm....
I have to ask. Is there a university city in England, that's medium to large in size, and known for its friendly locals, pretty city environment, and beautiful women?
I've noticed a tendency amongst UK guys to really persecute their own women in terms of looks, weight, and attitude (almost as much as American guys do here), but I'm curious if there is a place that all UK guys would agree is the best place around for quality of life & women (outside of London)?
Thanks.
I have to ask. Is there a university city in England, that's medium to large in size, and known for its friendly locals, pretty city environment, and beautiful women?
I've noticed a tendency amongst UK guys to really persecute their own women in terms of looks, weight, and attitude (almost as much as American guys do here), but I'm curious if there is a place that all UK guys would agree is the best place around for quality of life & women (outside of London)?
Thanks.
Alpine
Master Don Juan
I'm biased but I'd say Bristol.
englishcrap
Senior Don Juan
I have heard Newcastle is much better.
dearsappho
Senior Don Juan
im in Portsmouth (south coast)...im up for a sarge if theres any Pompey boys out there.
Don Legend
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are you a pompey fan?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I'm in Cardiff. Most places quoted aren't so close but bristol isn't too far away. Anyone fancy chatting a bit and maybe winging. msn [email protected] or email the same address.
20, student. early stages of game.
20, student. early stages of game.
ulfur
Don Juan
Manchester here and LSS
shame there aint much life here "You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
South East London, im 18, i have a new girlfriend, but ill come wing for any of you.
[email protected], used only for emails
[email protected], used only for emails
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
Bump.
octane_orphan
Don Juan
So who is in london and wants to meet up?
Matt Rogers
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Sure, I am in London all this summer from June and would be up for going on the pull with other London DJs.
I am 21.
I am 21.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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