zentraveller
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Up to date : The Uk.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
octane_orphan
Don Juan
Chav-tastic!
Alpine
Master Don Juan
Octane,
They have Chavs in London too don't they?
Most major cities in UK have top fanny. It's more a question of sniffing it out and smelling it's snatch.
They have Chavs in London too don't they?
Most major cities in UK have top fanny. It's more a question of sniffing it out and smelling it's snatch.
zentraveller
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I read Leeds was voted UK's favorite city.
Is it a pleasant place to visit, and how are the women?
Is it a pleasant place to visit, and how are the women?
Alpine
Master Don Juan
Fit as a Butcher's dog.
Take that how you like.
Take that how you like.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
zentraveller
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Hmmm....
I have to ask. Is there a university city in England, that's medium to large in size, and known for its friendly locals, pretty city environment, and beautiful women?
I've noticed a tendency amongst UK guys to really persecute their own women in terms of looks, weight, and attitude (almost as much as American guys do here), but I'm curious if there is a place that all UK guys would agree is the best place around for quality of life & women (outside of London)?
Thanks.
I have to ask. Is there a university city in England, that's medium to large in size, and known for its friendly locals, pretty city environment, and beautiful women?
I've noticed a tendency amongst UK guys to really persecute their own women in terms of looks, weight, and attitude (almost as much as American guys do here), but I'm curious if there is a place that all UK guys would agree is the best place around for quality of life & women (outside of London)?
Thanks.
Alpine
Master Don Juan
I'm biased but I'd say Bristol.
englishcrap
Senior Don Juan
I have heard Newcastle is much better.
dearsappho
Senior Don Juan
im in Portsmouth (south coast)...im up for a sarge if theres any Pompey boys out there.
Don Legend
Don Juan
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are you a pompey fan?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I'm in Cardiff. Most places quoted aren't so close but bristol isn't too far away. Anyone fancy chatting a bit and maybe winging. msn [email protected] or email the same address.
20, student. early stages of game.
20, student. early stages of game.
ulfur
Don Juan
Manchester here and LSS
shame there aint much life here "You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
South East London, im 18, i have a new girlfriend, but ill come wing for any of you.
[email protected], used only for emails
[email protected], used only for emails
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
Bump.
octane_orphan
Don Juan
So who is in london and wants to meet up?
Matt Rogers
Master Don Juan
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Sure, I am in London all this summer from June and would be up for going on the pull with other London DJs.
I am 21.
I am 21.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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