zentraveller
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Up to date : The Uk.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
octane_orphan
Don Juan
Chav-tastic!
Alpine
Master Don Juan
Octane,
They have Chavs in London too don't they?
Most major cities in UK have top fanny. It's more a question of sniffing it out and smelling it's snatch.
They have Chavs in London too don't they?
Most major cities in UK have top fanny. It's more a question of sniffing it out and smelling it's snatch.
zentraveller
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I read Leeds was voted UK's favorite city.
Is it a pleasant place to visit, and how are the women?
Is it a pleasant place to visit, and how are the women?
Alpine
Master Don Juan
Fit as a Butcher's dog.
Take that how you like.
Take that how you like.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
zentraveller
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Hmmm....
I have to ask. Is there a university city in England, that's medium to large in size, and known for its friendly locals, pretty city environment, and beautiful women?
I've noticed a tendency amongst UK guys to really persecute their own women in terms of looks, weight, and attitude (almost as much as American guys do here), but I'm curious if there is a place that all UK guys would agree is the best place around for quality of life & women (outside of London)?
Thanks.
I have to ask. Is there a university city in England, that's medium to large in size, and known for its friendly locals, pretty city environment, and beautiful women?
I've noticed a tendency amongst UK guys to really persecute their own women in terms of looks, weight, and attitude (almost as much as American guys do here), but I'm curious if there is a place that all UK guys would agree is the best place around for quality of life & women (outside of London)?
Thanks.
Alpine
Master Don Juan
I'm biased but I'd say Bristol.
englishcrap
Senior Don Juan
I have heard Newcastle is much better.
dearsappho
Senior Don Juan
im in Portsmouth (south coast)...im up for a sarge if theres any Pompey boys out there.
Don Legend
Don Juan
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are you a pompey fan?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I'm in Cardiff. Most places quoted aren't so close but bristol isn't too far away. Anyone fancy chatting a bit and maybe winging. msn [email protected] or email the same address.
20, student. early stages of game.
20, student. early stages of game.
ulfur
Don Juan
Manchester here and LSS
shame there aint much life here "Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
South East London, im 18, i have a new girlfriend, but ill come wing for any of you.
[email protected], used only for emails
[email protected], used only for emails
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
Bump.
octane_orphan
Don Juan
So who is in london and wants to meet up?
Matt Rogers
Master Don Juan
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Sure, I am in London all this summer from June and would be up for going on the pull with other London DJs.
I am 21.
I am 21.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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