zentraveller
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Up to date : The Uk.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
octane_orphan
Don Juan
Chav-tastic!
Alpine
Master Don Juan
Octane,
They have Chavs in London too don't they?
Most major cities in UK have top fanny. It's more a question of sniffing it out and smelling it's snatch.
They have Chavs in London too don't they?
Most major cities in UK have top fanny. It's more a question of sniffing it out and smelling it's snatch.
zentraveller
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I read Leeds was voted UK's favorite city.
Is it a pleasant place to visit, and how are the women?
Is it a pleasant place to visit, and how are the women?
Alpine
Master Don Juan
Fit as a Butcher's dog.
Take that how you like.
Take that how you like.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
zentraveller
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Hmmm....
I have to ask. Is there a university city in England, that's medium to large in size, and known for its friendly locals, pretty city environment, and beautiful women?
I've noticed a tendency amongst UK guys to really persecute their own women in terms of looks, weight, and attitude (almost as much as American guys do here), but I'm curious if there is a place that all UK guys would agree is the best place around for quality of life & women (outside of London)?
Thanks.
I have to ask. Is there a university city in England, that's medium to large in size, and known for its friendly locals, pretty city environment, and beautiful women?
I've noticed a tendency amongst UK guys to really persecute their own women in terms of looks, weight, and attitude (almost as much as American guys do here), but I'm curious if there is a place that all UK guys would agree is the best place around for quality of life & women (outside of London)?
Thanks.
Alpine
Master Don Juan
I'm biased but I'd say Bristol.
englishcrap
Senior Don Juan
I have heard Newcastle is much better.
dearsappho
Senior Don Juan
im in Portsmouth (south coast)...im up for a sarge if theres any Pompey boys out there.
Don Legend
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are you a pompey fan?
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I'm in Cardiff. Most places quoted aren't so close but bristol isn't too far away. Anyone fancy chatting a bit and maybe winging. msn [email protected] or email the same address.
20, student. early stages of game.
20, student. early stages of game.
ulfur
Don Juan
Manchester here and LSS
shame there aint much life here "Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
South East London, im 18, i have a new girlfriend, but ill come wing for any of you.
[email protected], used only for emails
[email protected], used only for emails
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
Bump.
octane_orphan
Don Juan
So who is in london and wants to meet up?
Matt Rogers
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Sure, I am in London all this summer from June and would be up for going on the pull with other London DJs.
I am 21.
I am 21.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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