"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Unusual Happenings! HELP

Sho-No-Luv

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Fellas I'm not sure lately, maybe I'm slipping. I'm experiencing things, I've never experienced before out here in the dating world. I already posted a few weeks back about a female bringing up in conversation that she had a fuuck buddy.

Well now I have two more tales.

First, had a female give me what I thought was a cell number, I called it got a voicemail, hung up. But because their was no greeting on it decided to check it and found out that it was a landline:(

Next had a really bizarre conversation with a 25 year old female after she said that she wanted to talk dirty that went like this:

Me: So tell me your deepest darkest fantasy

Female:
I like controlling men... I like to make a man scream like a helpless *****.

Me: Say what?

Female: I like controlling men..

Me: Oh you mean controlling them while having sex right?

Female: yes, sex and just in general in just about everything.

Me: Controlling men but why?

Female:
I like the idea of making them beg and feel helpless. I prefer to give than receive. I think most men secretly like it..

Me: CLICK...:confused:

MAN WTF IS GOING ON OUT HERE?? The last two weeks have been weird asf...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sho-No-Luv

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BUMP
 

RangerMIke

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There are all kinds... yes there are women that like to control men... and there are men that like being controlled. If you are not one of them, then hanging up was the right thing to do.
 

Sho-No-Luv

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There are all kinds... yes there are women that like to control men... and there are men that like being controlled. If you are not one of them, then hanging up was the right thing to do.
Agreed, but what about the one that gave me a landline number? I mean most guy's would probably take it as lack of interest right? Either that or something to hide..
 

dustmuffin

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Fellas I'm not sure lately, maybe I'm slipping. I'm experiencing things, I've never experienced before out here in the dating world. I already posted a few weeks back about a female bringing up in conversation that she had a fuuck buddy.

Well now I have two more tales.

First, had a female give me what I thought was a cell number, I called it got a voicemail, hung up. But because their was no greeting on it decided to check it and found out that it was a landline:(

Next had a really bizarre conversation with a 25 year old female after she said that she wanted to talk dirty that went like this:

Me: So tell me your deepest darkest fantasy

Female:
I like controlling men... I like to make a man scream like a helpless *****.

Me: Say what?




Female: I like controlling men..

Me: Oh you mean controlling them while having sex right?

Female: yes, sex and just in general in just about everything.

Me: Controlling men but why?

Female:
I like the idea of making them beg and feel helpless. I prefer to give than receive. I think most men secretly like it..

Me: CLICK...:confused:

MAN WTF IS GOING ON OUT HERE?? The last two weeks have been weird asf...
OH he ll I would have asked the second one out and turned the tables on her. I like a challenge. Tie her up and spank her a ss till it's red with shame.....tease her and make her beg.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Sho-No-Luv

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Dominatrix hookers make top dollar. And it's legal, because they don't let the guy have actual sex with them. I see a pimping opportunity, here.
Lmfao..
 

El Payaso

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Agreed, but what about the one that gave me a landline number? I mean most guy's would probably take it as lack of interest right? Either that or something to hide..
Who cares. Move on.
 
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