"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Unusual Happenings! HELP

Sho-No-Luv

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Fellas I'm not sure lately, maybe I'm slipping. I'm experiencing things, I've never experienced before out here in the dating world. I already posted a few weeks back about a female bringing up in conversation that she had a fuuck buddy.

Well now I have two more tales.

First, had a female give me what I thought was a cell number, I called it got a voicemail, hung up. But because their was no greeting on it decided to check it and found out that it was a landline:(

Next had a really bizarre conversation with a 25 year old female after she said that she wanted to talk dirty that went like this:

Me: So tell me your deepest darkest fantasy

Female:
I like controlling men... I like to make a man scream like a helpless *****.

Me: Say what?

Female: I like controlling men..

Me: Oh you mean controlling them while having sex right?

Female: yes, sex and just in general in just about everything.

Me: Controlling men but why?

Female:
I like the idea of making them beg and feel helpless. I prefer to give than receive. I think most men secretly like it..

Me: CLICK...:confused:

MAN WTF IS GOING ON OUT HERE?? The last two weeks have been weird asf...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sho-No-Luv

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BUMP
 

RangerMIke

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There are all kinds... yes there are women that like to control men... and there are men that like being controlled. If you are not one of them, then hanging up was the right thing to do.
 

Sho-No-Luv

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There are all kinds... yes there are women that like to control men... and there are men that like being controlled. If you are not one of them, then hanging up was the right thing to do.
Agreed, but what about the one that gave me a landline number? I mean most guy's would probably take it as lack of interest right? Either that or something to hide..
 

dustmuffin

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Fellas I'm not sure lately, maybe I'm slipping. I'm experiencing things, I've never experienced before out here in the dating world. I already posted a few weeks back about a female bringing up in conversation that she had a fuuck buddy.

Well now I have two more tales.

First, had a female give me what I thought was a cell number, I called it got a voicemail, hung up. But because their was no greeting on it decided to check it and found out that it was a landline:(

Next had a really bizarre conversation with a 25 year old female after she said that she wanted to talk dirty that went like this:

Me: So tell me your deepest darkest fantasy

Female:
I like controlling men... I like to make a man scream like a helpless *****.

Me: Say what?




Female: I like controlling men..

Me: Oh you mean controlling them while having sex right?

Female: yes, sex and just in general in just about everything.

Me: Controlling men but why?

Female:
I like the idea of making them beg and feel helpless. I prefer to give than receive. I think most men secretly like it..

Me: CLICK...:confused:

MAN WTF IS GOING ON OUT HERE?? The last two weeks have been weird asf...
OH he ll I would have asked the second one out and turned the tables on her. I like a challenge. Tie her up and spank her a ss till it's red with shame.....tease her and make her beg.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sho-No-Luv

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Dominatrix hookers make top dollar. And it's legal, because they don't let the guy have actual sex with them. I see a pimping opportunity, here.
Lmfao..
 

El Payaso

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Agreed, but what about the one that gave me a landline number? I mean most guy's would probably take it as lack of interest right? Either that or something to hide..
Who cares. Move on.
 
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