"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Unusual Happenings! HELP

Sho-No-Luv

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Fellas I'm not sure lately, maybe I'm slipping. I'm experiencing things, I've never experienced before out here in the dating world. I already posted a few weeks back about a female bringing up in conversation that she had a fuuck buddy.

Well now I have two more tales.

First, had a female give me what I thought was a cell number, I called it got a voicemail, hung up. But because their was no greeting on it decided to check it and found out that it was a landline:(

Next had a really bizarre conversation with a 25 year old female after she said that she wanted to talk dirty that went like this:

Me: So tell me your deepest darkest fantasy

Female:
I like controlling men... I like to make a man scream like a helpless *****.

Me: Say what?

Female: I like controlling men..

Me: Oh you mean controlling them while having sex right?

Female: yes, sex and just in general in just about everything.

Me: Controlling men but why?

Female:
I like the idea of making them beg and feel helpless. I prefer to give than receive. I think most men secretly like it..

Me: CLICK...:confused:

MAN WTF IS GOING ON OUT HERE?? The last two weeks have been weird asf...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sho-No-Luv

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BUMP
 

RangerMIke

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There are all kinds... yes there are women that like to control men... and there are men that like being controlled. If you are not one of them, then hanging up was the right thing to do.
 

Sho-No-Luv

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There are all kinds... yes there are women that like to control men... and there are men that like being controlled. If you are not one of them, then hanging up was the right thing to do.
Agreed, but what about the one that gave me a landline number? I mean most guy's would probably take it as lack of interest right? Either that or something to hide..
 

dustmuffin

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Fellas I'm not sure lately, maybe I'm slipping. I'm experiencing things, I've never experienced before out here in the dating world. I already posted a few weeks back about a female bringing up in conversation that she had a fuuck buddy.

Well now I have two more tales.

First, had a female give me what I thought was a cell number, I called it got a voicemail, hung up. But because their was no greeting on it decided to check it and found out that it was a landline:(

Next had a really bizarre conversation with a 25 year old female after she said that she wanted to talk dirty that went like this:

Me: So tell me your deepest darkest fantasy

Female:
I like controlling men... I like to make a man scream like a helpless *****.

Me: Say what?




Female: I like controlling men..

Me: Oh you mean controlling them while having sex right?

Female: yes, sex and just in general in just about everything.

Me: Controlling men but why?

Female:
I like the idea of making them beg and feel helpless. I prefer to give than receive. I think most men secretly like it..

Me: CLICK...:confused:

MAN WTF IS GOING ON OUT HERE?? The last two weeks have been weird asf...
OH he ll I would have asked the second one out and turned the tables on her. I like a challenge. Tie her up and spank her a ss till it's red with shame.....tease her and make her beg.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sho-No-Luv

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Dominatrix hookers make top dollar. And it's legal, because they don't let the guy have actual sex with them. I see a pimping opportunity, here.
Lmfao..
 

El Payaso

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Agreed, but what about the one that gave me a landline number? I mean most guy's would probably take it as lack of interest right? Either that or something to hide..
Who cares. Move on.
 
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